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IMDonehere Apr 27th, 2018 02:07 PM

...but your mother was in Toronto

Nikki Apr 27th, 2018 03:18 PM


Originally Posted by xcountry (Post 16720397)
I was born in Montreal ...


I’m listening...

loackerwafer Apr 27th, 2018 03:43 PM


Originally Posted by IMDonehere (Post 16719106)
Thank you, Coquelicot

There are two separate issues.
A. Many Americans are not informed about their own country, let alone foreign countries.
B. Right now, the US is the big dog and many people read about us.

We try to know the larger current issues of a country we visit, as well as some history, literature, art, and some basics of their language. This small amount of knowledge often take people aback. For example, I just re-read Candide.

We used to be defensive about other countries knowing more about the US, then we they. But there approximately 200 countries and it is impossible to know each. And if someone gets rude about it, I ask them who is the Prime Minister of Finland or what is the leading export of Chile. Not my preferred method of creating good will.

LOL am I the only one who visited a few countries without knowing who the president or PM of that specific country was?

IMDonehere Apr 27th, 2018 04:52 PM

I cannot count how many times Americans have been criticized for not having specific knowledge about a country they are visiting. So I thought it fair, to ask similar questions in return. Simple as that.

bilboburgler Apr 28th, 2018 01:32 AM

"big dog" must have a special meaning in the USA. Any clues? Or is it like the Elephant in the room?

Fra_Diavolo Apr 28th, 2018 04:55 AM


Originally Posted by bilboburgler (Post 16720693)
"big dog" must have a special meaning in the USA. Any clues? Or is it like the Elephant in the room?

It's like "alpha male."

Good stories, IDH!

IMDonehere Apr 28th, 2018 05:20 AM

Thank you Fra.

bilboburgler Apr 28th, 2018 05:24 AM

Thanks IMD

IMDonehere Apr 28th, 2018 07:24 AM

You are welcome Bilbo

annhig Apr 28th, 2018 12:59 PM

My own experience is that people will tell you their life stories if you give them half a chance, anywhere in the world.>>

Exactly, Nikki. You only have to look interested and you get the lot, warts and all. Sometimes you get more than you've bargained for, of course.

Great thread, IMD, thanks.

IMDonehere Apr 28th, 2018 03:54 PM

Thank you very much Ann.

crefloors Apr 28th, 2018 06:43 PM

Loved everyone's stories. I love chatting people up when I travel and it seems most people are quite ready to have a nice talk. It's one of the real pleasures I get from a trip, whether here in the US or abroad.

IMDonehere Apr 28th, 2018 11:34 PM

Thank you Crefloors

russ_in_LA Apr 30th, 2018 01:06 PM

<<Last few weeks in Spain and France, I wore a tee-shirt that reads in about 10 languages, "Sorry about our President.">>

LOL, thanks for the tee-shirt info. I just ordered mine!

We've made numerous friends by striking up conversations with locals and other travelers throughout the years, most of whom we continue to see. That's one of the the best parts of traveling.

IMDonehere Apr 30th, 2018 01:11 PM

Thank you Russ in LA.

Sometimes you don't make friends by striking up conversations but learn a little about a country. In Spain we often speak with cab drivers and get their personal take but are careful not to interpolate beyond the one person.

annhig Apr 30th, 2018 01:58 PM

Loved everyone's stories. I love chatting people up when I travel and it seems most people are quite ready to have a nice talk. It's one of the real pleasures I get from a trip, whether here in the US or abroad.>>

me too, crefloors. Perhaps that's why I like Fodors - it's the on-line equivalent of chatting to people you meet while you're travelling. Some you get on with, some not so much, and a few become friends for life.

russ_in_LA Apr 30th, 2018 02:06 PM

On our last trip our London cab driver informed us that we were his last fare forever, as he was quitting due to competition from Uber. Not a happy conversation, but at the end of the ride he put on some music, threw opened the doors and jumped out, and we all did a little dance on the sidewalk.


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