ynot

I am really confused I keep changing my mind and there is NO TIME. I will either go to Europe with my husband and 9 month old daughter of 22 days and visit 2 countires OR go only with my husband and leave my daughtert with her grandmother and visit many places in 15 days. WHich shall I go for??!

Oh My, Please

What a question to ask alot of strangers, either you are very immature or a troll, or both. Your daughter would be better off either way with her grandmother for the next 17 years, I am afraid.

motheroftwins

OH my, Please- DO my a favour and look up the word "HARSH" because I am sure it has a picture of you next to it. I think ynot just wants help deciding. It is hard being a mother and leaving a baby behind. I know how it feels.

Stop!

This is a troll. It's based on a posting last week that created a big furor, whether or not the original one was a troll. Ynot is neither a good mother nor a bad mother. Ynot is a trolling idiot.

enjoy

If you want a holiday, go with hubby alone: the two weeks will feel like a month.<BR>If you take the baby, the 3 weeks will feel like 3 days.<BR>Your baby is lucky to have grandma alive, available and willing. Let them enjoy each other.

sue

Definitly take your baby. It will be a hassel, but you will be so sad thinking about your child and worrying. It is not worth it, even if the grandparents are wonderful. Your children are babies for such a short time.