Naples and Cilento itinerary finalized!
 

OK, here is my itinerary - it was difficult to plan! I have also included my hit list of restaurants in each area, based on quite a bit of research - thought that might be helpful for anyone going to Cilento. I don't have Naples restaurants yet. That is my next task.

2 nights in Naples, Hotel Piazza Bellini (using credit card points!)
http://www.hotelpiazzabellini.com/en

3 nights at Villa Cheta in Acquafredda
https://www.villacheta.it/
Restaurants: Ristorante Il Giardino Di Epicuro, Da Cesare, Lucifero, Osteria la Specola, Azienda Agrituristica Palazzone, Bar Tabacchi Pappacena

3 nights at Hotel Marulivo in Pisciotta
http://www.marulivohotel.it/
Restaurants: Angiolina, Pizzeria Bar Tre Gufi, L' Oste e Il Cacciatore, L'uorto, Ristorante Brera, Anna Dei Sapori Di Nigro A

3 nights near Paestum/Castellabate (this place looks amazing!)
https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/4445713
Restaurants: Taverna del capitano, Perbacco, Nonna Sceppa

If anyone has stayed at both Villa Cheta and Marulivo and thinks I should stay longer at one than the other, let me know. Thanks!