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Dr_DoGood Dec 2nd, 2004 12:13 PM

Ira/Dick... the real question is WHY is it illegal? That would perhaps start to explain the differences in European and American public morality (I suspect there is very little difference in private morality - lets face it we're all the same all over the world; we just live under different skies).
So... can anyone explain why nude bathing should be illegal in the States?

Dr D.

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 12:18 PM

Dr DoGood- good reading. Though when casually typing messages it's easy to write something that can be taken wrong, you are right here. I just returned from the UK. But the German things i saw indeed in summer but not this year. Looking at how i wrote it what you say is exactly right. That it could have been written more clearly yes, but the point remains the same regardless of when i saw it.

Dick Dec 2nd, 2004 12:21 PM

Dr,

The beaches are illegal because nudity "offends" the religous right.

I have been to beaches where there is only access by foot and you had walk two miles on a beach to reach the nude area. It is hard to believe that even such a remote location bothered the local "church goers" ....but it did.

degas Dec 2nd, 2004 12:30 PM

Dick, are you sure that ONLY the religious right (your words/term) are offended by nude beaches? I would think
a number of non-church-goers would also object. Just a thought.

Dick Dec 2nd, 2004 12:36 PM

degas,

Certainly that is possible..even likely..but the "church goers" seemed to be beter organized and more active politcally.

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 12:49 PM

And the case in a nearby town here in the conservative Midwest. A nudist group had used the local high school swimming pool on a permit basis for a few years but were denied the permit later after complaints from religious-organized folks who, even though it in no way impacted on them, decided that this could not go on. A friend in high school years ago had a German exchange student who at their cottage unassumedly went out to the swimming dock and took off his clothes! My friend's mother said get out there and tell him to get some clothes on! funny it's the same human body in each country but many here find it repulsive and many there don't bat an eye lash.

Dr_DoGood Dec 2nd, 2004 12:53 PM

Dick - you are saying that it is only since church goers got politically active that (for instance)nude sunbathing was outlawed?
I don't know but that sounds a little unlikely to me - and maybe just a pat retrenchment of current political/moral battlefield lines.

My impression is that it is MUCH more than just the "Religious Right" (btw is there no "Religious Left"?) - I somehow feel that it all bound up in the very essence of the USA and seen symbollically every year in Thanksgiving. Its all wrapped up in that Puritanical ethic, the way that protestantism has been empowered and ennobled and the way that people see their country as a refuge from Europe - from both the Catholic Church AND also the moral decadance which seemed to be synonymous throughout much of Europe's history.
And I believe it is these same attitudes which continues to shape a the way that Europe is frequently seen by many Americans even in the 21st Century - that Europe is corrupt, corpulent and every so often in need of saving from itself by our younger, morally stouter, cousins from the west (thinks WW1 & 2).
In the same way "Old" Europe is portrayed as moribund and reeking of decay whilst "New" Europe is rosy of cheek and clear of eye.

Anyway that's just my personal view from the "looser" side of the pond. (Not MY description!)

Dr D.

Dick Dec 2nd, 2004 01:54 PM

Dr D,

Your explanation speaks to why the States does not have many nude beaches. If your logic were true there wouldn't be so many people looking for nude recreation. There are many thousands that belong to nudist clubs. Some travel agents offer clothing optional cruises on major cruise ships ( obviously they charter the whole boat)

Mine speaks to the beaches with years of customary nude use being forced to close because of the "religous right".

degas Dec 2nd, 2004 02:16 PM

PAlQ, don't you think people can object to nude swimming/sunbathing without all of them viewing the human body as repulsive? Just a thought.

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 02:37 PM

Degas: you're right. repulsive wrong word, i should have said obscene, in which case the famous Supreme Court Justice's saying about what is pornographic - he said he couldn't define it but knew it when he saw it. Further court rulings based it somewhat on community standards. But no they do not have to think they're repulsive, their bodies.

ira Dec 2nd, 2004 02:44 PM

>the real question is WHY is it illegal? That would perhaps start to explain the differences in European and American public morality ...<

Are you claiming that nude bathing is permitted on all beaches in all European countries?

degas Dec 2nd, 2004 02:50 PM

I know a repulsive body when I see one, but still feel its obscence for anybody to walk around naked in public. Too much sharing leads to trouble.

cigalechanta Dec 2nd, 2004 02:59 PM

There was one for years on Cape Cod, though not legally on the books but when the beach was mentioned in an underground newspaper, the crowd changed and grew too large so it was closed down, because they were disturbing the ecology of the sand dunes and using private properties for toilets. There are still patches of nuse beaches and some rangers will let it pass, others may give you a warning.

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 03:03 PM

No most beaches in Europe are not nude-tolerant. I don't know if it's illegal or not but the average beach i've been to is always topless is OK, not every woman goes topless but many do, of all ages, even though after a certain age it does become repulsive, if not obscene, to me. But there are many nude-friendly beaches but these are usually in tourist destinations such as islands, etc. But i have seen people skinny-dipping many times by themselves - i recently saw it on the train from Ventimiglia-Nice, a couple frolicking au naturel in eye shot from the train. Even in local swimming pools in France when i used to take my French son there were many topless ladies - it's just become non-chalant. Yes it's more plausible for something to be considered obscene in public in general, much as it would be in Paris on the Champs-Elysees; but on designated beaches where you don't have to see it, that's another question.

platzman Dec 2nd, 2004 03:44 PM

I'm not sure Europe is too loose.
But I'm sure Toulouse is in Europe.

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 04:18 PM

To be too loose in Toulouse is to lose?

Neil_Oz Dec 2nd, 2004 04:31 PM

My only problem with nudists is that many of them are just as evangelistic as their prudish opponents. I made the mistake of joking about it in a thread somewhere ("What's the best form of birth control for those over 50? - Nudity"), with the result that one of these fanatics promtly suggested that I had unresolved sexual problems.

For the record, I think the first legal nudist beach in Australia was so designated in the 1970s, and there are now quite a few. Topless bathing seems to be tolerated on Sydney beaches. Not that I was taking any particular notice.

Sue_xx_yy Dec 2nd, 2004 04:35 PM

Notwithstanding their Folies Bergeres, etc., the French were still being terribly prudish about giving women there the vote, long after women in the state of Wisconsin, in their corsets and bustles, exercised the franchise.

As for Germany, who can forget the film "Cabaret" which depicted how both licentiousness and totalitarianism reigned hand in hand in Nazi Germany?

Maybe, PalQ, you might enjoy reading Aldous Huxley's "Brave New World", wherein is portrayed a fictitious (?!) future world in which the citizens enjoy plenty of casual sex and government sanctioned drugs (including the pleasure drug 'SOMA'.) Then come back and tell us if you think meaningful freedom has got anything, whatsoever, to do with attitudes toward nudity, sex, or drugs. Just curious. (Yellow or Blue, take your choice...):)

PalQ Dec 2nd, 2004 05:30 PM

I wonder how European men view the topless situation. Take that volleyball game i saw in a German park. Here were high school kids, both guys and gals playing and all the gals were topless. If this had been in American the boys would no doubt found it erotic just to look. I wonder if those German boys did too, or any men are they turned on at the beach or don't they bat an eyelash? It seems eroticism may be a learned cultural trait and not just visually oriented. But i don't buy all of that and i think European men may get aroused as well. I wonder what they think?

Budman Dec 2nd, 2004 05:41 PM

PalQ - Now you are getting to be a troll. Keep wondering!!! ((b))

easytraveler Dec 2nd, 2004 05:44 PM

If 61% of UnitedStatians/Americans are overweight, it's just as well there aren't too many nude beaches around here. :)

Neil_Oz Dec 2nd, 2004 06:07 PM

Nudists don't care. That's why their get-togethers aren't a pretty sight (reputedly).

In Sydney this week a guy was fined for wandering around a popular beach using his mobile phone to take snaps of (female) topless sunbathers. He seemed to think that he'd been the victim of prudery.

kswl Dec 2nd, 2004 06:47 PM

I find it interesting that there is so much "religious right" bashing. Why shouldn't people of like mind vote together? After all, that's what the Republicans and Democrats do, as well as the environmentalists, the Socialists, etc. Fundamentalists have a perfect right to organize and boycott and vote--and they are strengthening our democracy by the exercise of THEIR rights. And because there are more of them than in your group---well, that's democracy at work.

No, I am not a member of the religious right. I can't be, I'm an Episcopalian. But I don't knock them or their views, and I certainly think that power (governmental or otherwise) belongs to those who are willing to work for it.

elina Dec 3rd, 2004 02:56 AM

"I wonder if those German boys did too, or any men are they turned on at the beach or don't they bat an eyelash?"

They donīt bat an eyelash. When people are used to seeing naked people it becomes everyday, and is nothing to be noticed. For example in Finland nudity is not usually connected to sex. It is not SEXY, it is just a naked person.

Dick Dec 3rd, 2004 03:25 AM

I' just curious.

Have any of you actually been on a nude beach or at a nudist resort?

As a voyeur or participant?

PalQ Dec 3rd, 2004 07:30 AM

Yes in Goa, India long ago and it was great at that time - the freedom of it all, especially with my girlfriend. There were lots of other Westerners as well but no Indians. There were Indians who came to gawk at the naked Westerners which wasn't a comfortable feeling for my girlfriend - i figured they weren't looking at me. I've also been on Dutch nude beaches just briefly, just to see what they were and they were mainly older folks that were not an enticing sight. In fact beaches of all types bore me stiff!

Sue_xx_yy Dec 3rd, 2004 11:49 AM

Author: elina
Date: 12/03/2004, 06:56 am
Message: "I wonder if those German boys did too, or any men are they turned on at the beach or don't they bat an eyelash?"

They donīt bat an eyelash. When people are used to seeing naked people it becomes everyday, and is nothing to be noticed. For example in Finland nudity is not usually connected to sex. It is not SEXY, it is just a naked person.

********

Elina, it's not the male eyelash which is known for its batting average. :)

Wonder why there are German and French editions of Playboy?

SeaUrchin Dec 3rd, 2004 11:56 AM

PalQ, nude beaches bore you "stiff"....hmmm.

Sorry, it is my wacky mood today.

beachbum Dec 3rd, 2004 12:38 PM

Sue, Your question reminded me of something I observed years ago in French Polynesia. This was back in the day when Club Med was everything it was rumored to be and more, with clothing optional at most of its beaches. I thought it quite humorous to see young men huddled around a Playboy (or the like) when they could cross the street to the beach and get an eyeful of the real thing(s).

Cassandra Dec 3rd, 2004 12:58 PM

Forgive the view of someone who has, perhaps, become a bit jaded over the years, but why isn't this a boring topic by now? I had to laugh at beachbum's description of the Playboy oglers near a nude beach -- sort of makes my point that there's a certain amount of self-imposed fanaticism among Americans (males) who otherwise have a remarkably short attention span. Hey! Is nakedness really such news?

I guess I know I'm old
When I only care
Whether nudists get cold.

BTW: I've enjoyed a couple of clothing optional beaches, joined in the spirit, loved swimming nekkid. But after one or two strutting bald roosters walk by, the novelty...shall we say ... withers.

Dick Dec 4th, 2004 03:53 AM

Actually, a "clothed" beach is much more erotic.

Much of today's swimwear (for women) seems meant to be sexy and seems to attract attention.

A nude beach is just naked.

GreenDragon Dec 6th, 2004 10:17 AM

I have gone topless (when I was 25 and had enough confidence in myself) on a small section of North Miami Beach called Haulover. It was a small section, but well known for it's topless tendancies.

My partner in crime was a visiting friend from Australia. She grew up near Perth, and said she doesn't remember being on a beach where there weren't topless bathers.

I got sunburnt in places that really hurt!!! :D


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