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hetismij2 Apr 22nd, 2025 11:17 AM

https://www.euronews.com/travel/2025...ons-you-need-t

An example of the need for some plans.

Travel insurance including health insurance is essential. You are young and healthy but you could be hit by a bus.

You only have a total of 90 days in any 180 days in the Schengen zone.

If you have a ton of money then going with nothing booked and nothing planned may work, but this is Europe not South America or Asia, and things are expensive and popular and crowded, trains get full, as do hostels and hotels and festivals.

As for making friends just be open, chat to people, but accept not everyone will want to converse.

I am sure with the right attitude, and a little planning you will have a wonderful trip.

janisj Apr 22nd, 2025 12:24 PM


Originally Posted by EmmaLove23 (Post 17649708)
Agree to disagree. That’s the whole point of backpacking. I want the raw adventure, not an overplanned journey on the tourist circuit.


From your first thread it seems you've not been before and base much of your knowledge on some viral videos. If one is young and seems to be a 'back packer' they may stopped by Border authorities and asked to show 1) proof of accommodations, 2) enough money to cover all expenses, 3) an onward ticket, and 4) insurance. If not able to produce same -- they will be put on a plane back home.


wildiowa Apr 22nd, 2025 12:54 PM

If someone is fishing around with no firm plan or even just fantasizing who am I to scold or refuse to participate in what-ifs. Planning and anticipation is most of the fun. This poster has been given lots of advice and perspective but youth does not know the meaning of "failure" and if he/she strikes out with nothing but a backpack and a Rick Steves book....what the heck. It will be memorable, no matter what happens. Maybe it's a dream. Who cares. I'll keep chiming in, sounds interesting to me.

EmmaLove23 Apr 22nd, 2025 03:26 PM

Rick Steve ? A book ?
 

Originally Posted by wildiowa (Post 17649772)
with nothing but a backpack and a Rick Steves book....

Who the hell is Rick Steve ? There might be a generation gap here... My references are influencers like Doug Barnard, Morgan Venn and Ishowspeed and Im too lazy to read ... :sob: But im gonna check im out ;) Thanks nevertheless for the ref !

wildiowa Apr 22nd, 2025 03:31 PM

It was satire....I find the younger generation is kinda ironically-challenged. ☮️

Travel_To_Eat Apr 22nd, 2025 05:13 PM

I don't 🤣. My wife loves to talk to random strangers on vacation which I hate, so I just pretend I don't know her when she does it and keep walking. Makes her so mad.

danon Apr 22nd, 2025 05:13 PM


Originally Posted by kja (Post 17649373)
I do what I enjoy. I make no special effort to meet anyone.

ditto 🙂🍷

Fra_Diavolo Apr 22nd, 2025 05:51 PM

I don't buy this story for a minute -- but if you want a guide to sort of trip you're proposing, may I suggest

EmmaLove23 Apr 22nd, 2025 06:10 PM

What story ?
 

Originally Posted by Fra_Diavolo (Post 17649824)
I don't buy this story for a minute -- but if you want a guide to sort of trip you're proposing, may I suggest https://www.amazon.com/Vagabonding-E.../dp/0394706633

what story ? Im confused ...

KTtravel Apr 22nd, 2025 06:18 PM

This website might be helpful: https://www.thebrokebackpacker.com/b...e-travel-guide


EmmaLove23 Apr 22nd, 2025 06:21 PM

great !
 

Originally Posted by Travel_To_Eat (Post 17649811)
I don't 🤣. My wife loves to talk to random strangers on vacation which I hate, so I just pretend I don't know her when she does it and keep walking. Makes her so mad.

keep doing it ! :toj:

EmmaLove23 Apr 22nd, 2025 06:23 PM

Thanks !
 

Originally Posted by KTtravel (Post 17649831)

Thanks for the tip !

Travel_Nerd Apr 22nd, 2025 06:29 PM

Janis, we were in troll territory two days ago when OP argued with several longtime members, one of which she called a name (although fairly innocuous) to the overuse of the phrase "triggered" to once again increased aggression. The irony that the OP herself is so easily triggered.

I also find it awfully ironic that the OP has asked how to make friends while traveling when she has not done a very good job making friends with the very people here giving her free advice.

Me thinks OP is looking for validation and attention.

kja Apr 22nd, 2025 06:38 PM


Originally Posted by Travel_Nerd (Post 17649836)
we were in troll territory two days ago .

Agreed.
And if not, I stopped caring.

Nelson Apr 22nd, 2025 09:23 PM


Originally Posted by kja (Post 17649373)
I do what I enjoy. I make no special effort to meet anyone.

That sums it up, has always worked. I was never alone if I didn't want to be alone.

You could get the app, "Make friends while traveling solo", supposedly aimed at women.
https://travelladies.app/

It might just be clickbait, you can decide.



bilboburgler Apr 23rd, 2025 01:24 AM

if the other person has a dog, then you have an easy in

Fra_Diavolo Apr 23rd, 2025 06:05 AM


Originally Posted by EmmaLove23 (Post 17649828)
what story ? Im confused ...

Your story.

EmmaLove23 Apr 23rd, 2025 06:19 AM

?
 

Originally Posted by Fra_Diavolo (Post 17649909)
Your story.

there is no story... im simply asking people how they make friends while traveling ... Im not sure what story you are talking about but you do you :tu:

Fra_Diavolo Apr 23rd, 2025 06:48 AM

At this point I wouldn't be surprised to learn you are an AI bot toying with us good folks here at Fodor's.

EmmaLove23 Apr 23rd, 2025 07:28 AM

What about the thread ?
 

Originally Posted by Fra_Diavolo (Post 17649920)
At this point I wouldn't be surprised to learn you are an AI bot toying with us good folks here at Fodor's.

Yes, I can say that I'm an AI if that makes you happy. Now that you're happier than ever, do you have anything valuable to add to the thread ?


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