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logandog Dec 14th, 2006 11:41 AM

French 101, Bonjour at night too?
 
I'll be in Paris in a few weeks and was wondering how to greet waiters and others during dinner. Do I still use bonjour after dark or do I switch to bon soir?

cocofromdijon Dec 14th, 2006 11:43 AM

Bonsoir is perfect. :-)

Dukey Dec 14th, 2006 12:05 PM

If it is any sort of decent restaurant you should not be the first person to be offering a greeting. Wait and see how the waiter greets you and then say your "Bonsoir."

Michel_Paris Dec 14th, 2006 12:13 PM

"Bonsoir" on way in, "Merci au revoir" on way out would be perfect.

Kay_SD Dec 14th, 2006 02:22 PM

I have also been wondering about what time of day one switches to bonsoir. Is it around 5 or 6 pm? After dark (which would change with the time of year)?

aucho53 Dec 14th, 2006 02:26 PM

Hey guys,

I live in Montreal, Quebec and I work as an evening receptionist. My general rule is after 6pm to switch to "bonsoir". Hope that helps!

Layla

BTilke Dec 14th, 2006 02:36 PM

Now that it's getting dark early, I find that some people greet me with a bonsoir as early as 4:00 pm. Or smile and say bonsoir, bonjour, comme vous voulez. They also tend to say bonsoir if it's near the end of their shift, their focus is on getting away from work and off to their favorite cafe.

PatrickLondon Dec 15th, 2006 08:11 AM

And "bonne nuit" only when one or other of you is going to bed (separately, of course).

waring Dec 15th, 2006 09:11 AM

Bon soir on arrival, bonne soirée on departure.


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