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Neecy Nov 24th, 2023 09:54 AM

Tomboy--we watched Calanques boat rides on youtube on our big tv and I nearly got seasick lol. I've seen enough :toj:

Natylou--I'm going to check out Nice. Appreciate your opinion on it being boring for the girls. One is an artistic nature lover, the other is more typical


mdinbc Nov 24th, 2023 12:38 PM

Neecy, we did a 15 day trip in France and had a nice balance of city and small town. We started 3 days in Brittany/Normandy, then 5 days Paris, 7 days in La Ciotot/Bandol. Loved every minute.
I think you can do your itinerary, but as others have said, be mindful of travel days, they can take up the majority of the day. As for your itinerary, I think it depends on whether you want to start off with a bang, and end with relaxing, or the other way around. Personally I think starting in London 4 days, travel to Paris on 5th, 5 nights Paris, then travel to Provence for the last 5 nights. You could rail to Arles, 1 night, visit St Remy, then carry on to either Bandol or Hyeres for some beach time before heading home via Marseilles. Others will say it is too little time in one place, but when we were in the north, there were specific things we wanted to see in each of 3 spots.

We did a few (3) single nights in hotels in Brittany/Normany, and it was do-able, as long as the drive times are under 2 hours. Wake up, pack/breakfast and on to your next place before noon. The drive is part of the enjoyment of the trip.
Try not to be overwhelmed with too much advice, and remember planning is fun in itself!

Sassafrass Nov 24th, 2023 01:00 PM

Are either of the girls into theater, music, art, history, languages, sports, hiking, swimming, boating, cooking, fashion? Do they love shopping? Special foods? What have they studied in HS? What do they hope to pursue in college or after HS? What does your husband enjoy? More than just how to get places most efficiently or for the best scenery, many here have traveled with kids and family for years and several live in Europe and have raised families there, so the more you can share about the specific interests of your family members, the better suggestions people can give you. It may affect only bits of your trip, but may have a big impact. Seeing and experiencing new things are always good too, but a mix of both is nice.

tomboy Nov 24th, 2023 01:41 PM

Be sure to involve the kids, and spouse, in the planning and researching for the trip. That will increase the "buy-in" of the teens.

tomboy Nov 24th, 2023 01:42 PM


Originally Posted by dfourh (Post 17512706)
Oh, all right already. I want to thank each and every one of you for the advice way back, and I apologize for not getting back to you. That suggestion to build my own chariot before going to Rome was spot on. The local purveyors were asking an arm and a leg. Quite literally.

And your passionate urgings to adorn my hat with a tricolor ribbon cockade was essential upon entering Paris - - it didn't help with the bedbugs, but at least I avoided the guillotine.

What would my trip have been without that curative and prophylactic toad-shaped incense-burning amulet about my neck on my visit to London - - there were punters left and right of me keeling over with plague, buboes big as a breadbox, streaming headlong into the Thames, while I suffered nary pox nor palsy - - all thanks to you.

And that hovel hidden under an outcropping covered by leaves in the densely overgrown hedges of the Colbitz-Letzinger Heide that a couple of you had the inside scoop on, let me survive the Sack of Magdeburg - - and with the nearby stream and gooseberry bushes, I wound up staying there for the entire remainder of the 30 Years War!

Thanks for all the great tips, folks.

this response belongs in the same class as "how much do I tip the pilot".

tomboy Nov 24th, 2023 01:52 PM


Originally Posted by Neecy (Post 17512472)
Tomboy, actually, I do want to go to McDonalds in Paris, to just see how different it is and to order a Le Big Mac.:). But yes, Ill try to skip restaurants and retail shopping we can do here. It's funny that you mention beaches, because the first thing I want to do when we get to Marsaille is see the beach. It's bugging me not to build in time to. I've seen the Atlantic countless times, but I feel like i have to see the Med, even to just do a detour for a quick look.

Please realize that, if upon your return from the trip you mention that you went to the McDonalds in Paris, your closest friend will say "that's nice", but you won't hear the eyes rolling of the 6 acquaintances behind your back, nor the snickers about your plebian tastes for weeks thereafter. But if that's "the good life" for you, God bless. But do have a "Croque Monsieur", even from a Parisian street vendor, and do have a "Croissant Chocolate aux Amandes" from a Parisian bakery.

shelemm Nov 24th, 2023 05:12 PM

There's a lot for teens of any kind to love about Provence. Villages, ruins, castles, rocky coastal walks make for great exploration. The ochre quarry in Roussillon is like walking into a paint factory. I also think teens would like the Fondation Vasarely in Aix.

I think seeing the port of Marseilles, with it's fortifications and taking a boat ride out to Chateau d'If or Port Friou is a fantastic experience.


tomboy Nov 24th, 2023 05:50 PM

Oh, and Neecy, about the Eiffel Tower. Being a midwesterner myself, I realize there's a temptation to go UP in the Tower.
But just as with going up in the Sears Tower in Chicago, or the Arch in St. Louis, when you look down at the buildings below, they look very similar (undifferetiated) to the sight from any other tall building.
We didn't go up in it, but were at the Arc de Triumphe, so decided to go the top of the arch. Same, undifferentiated vista. I think if one took a photo of that, and one from Sears Tower, and St. Louis Arch, and Empire State Bldg, one would be hard pressed to tell one city from the other. So why go up?

On the other hand, we took a river boat ride on the Seine that landed at the base of Eiffel Tower at 9:00 PM, just as its lights lit up (just for us!!!). Now, that was a sight to see!!! Also, on another trip, we walked thru the park at its base about 10:00 PM....really got a feel for how tall and massive it was. I'd pick that any time, as opposed to going up in the tower.

Another good place to view the Tower is from the Trocadero, a stone esplanade high on an embankment of the Seine right across from the tower. An excellent view of the tower, if you are in that part of Paris.

mjs Nov 24th, 2023 06:41 PM

I think you might be starting to realize why many of us would recommend 2 places not three for two weeks. There is just a lot to do and see in each of your destinations. You will only be able to see a small part of Provence with the time you have so you will have to prioritize what you want to see in a manner that makes the traveling easy. . If you did Paris and Provence it would be more efficient and allow you to see much of Provence including the Cote. Although I like the countryside, London and Paris with a day trip or two would also keep you just as busy. My daughter loved London so much she went back for her College time abroad to study at University College London.

tomboy Nov 25th, 2023 10:50 AM

I suspect that's exactly why Neecy would like to do the THREE areas.
.....to get a TASTE of what everyone talks about....a sampling....to see if it's worth planting a seed for future trips .....as well as a BROAD experience, not just an URBAN experience, however famed.

shelemm Nov 25th, 2023 11:04 AM

'Can't see it all' is the silliest reason I've ever heard not to go somewhere. Of course four nights on Provence would be worth it!

When I based myself In Aix, I spent three glorious days:

One day going down to Marseilles, marveled at the fort and harbor, took a boat ride to Chateu d'If and went hiking at Les Calanques. I also saw Cassis, but that's not a particular highlight.

One day in Aix.

One day to Roussillon to roam around the village and go to the ochre quarry. Also visited Fontaine de Vaucluse, Grotte de Calès (7th Century BC Ligurian grotto),and Vieux Vernegues (hilltop ruins). One of the most thrilling days I have ever spent in Europe.


dfourh Nov 25th, 2023 12:32 PM


Originally Posted by shelemm (Post 17512928)
'Can't see it all' is the silliest reason I've ever heard not to go somewhere. Of course four nights on Provence would be worth it! When I based myself In Aix, I spent three glorious days.

I have friends who had never been to Provence - - and with their work schedule from Berlin they had three nights, two full days. Landed in Montpellier, picked up a car then went straight for a swim at Le Grau de Roi, stopped at Aigues-Mortes for a lunch, then headed to our Airbnb gite just north of Arles, then went into Arles to enjoy the late afternoon/evening. Next day drive northeast for the buzzing market in Lourmarin, a drive north to see the ochre cliffs in Rousillion, west to charming little Gordes, then Van Gogh's asylum at St. Remy. Last day up to the market in Uzes, then a swim beneath the Pont du Gard, then a stop at a small olive oil producer for some tastes and some product to take home, then back to Arles for the evening. Flew out the next day, and it was a rich, vivid, wonderful, and, yes easy-going experience. It's not as much what you do, as how you do it. If you miss anything in particular, you then have a reason to go back.

Neecy Nov 25th, 2023 01:48 PM

I don't think we'll attempt Nice. It looks like too much distance from London and Paris. It's on the list for next time. After your concerns that the ruins and Luberon towns might not interest the girls, we took a lot more time yesterday watching youtube, and they really seem interested. Quote from one of them was "but a dusty old town sounds amazing!" lol. On the other hand, multiple days of hill towns might get repetitive. Do they all look alike after a couple?
And there's the trade off of less time for the cities. I'm still not sure about Provence. But I'm sold on London and Paris. I really am trying to make this a sampler with a variety of experience with just 2 weeks.

Please give me your input for fun activites for any of our locations. In particular what you think would be fun for teens. Their interests are music (rock and roll, some classical), theater, nature, people watching, shopping (does bargain or outlet shopping exist there?), hiking, food to some extent (none of us are foodies or really interested in long high end dinners. Definitely want to try local specialties and treats.) History and architecture to an extent. We homeschooled for several years, so we were able to pick out really great curriculum that gave them a decent appreciation for history. I'm hoping to have time to brush up on some history before we go (but you know how that goes)

So far on the list of interests--tower of london, British Museum, Buckingham Palace, Westminster Abbey, British Library, bus tour of the city, parks and gardens, markets, definitely theater.

Paris--it all looks good--1 or 2 art museums, les invalides, catacombs, opera house, st chapelle.

Provence--Arles, pont du gard, Luberon. Is there any action in the evening in Provence or is it pretty quiet after dinner? Anything particularly fun for young people?

tomboy--thanks, that is exactly what I was wondering about going up the tower. And yes, exactly a sample.

And those Provence trips sound amazing:love: do you think all ages could appreciate that? My girls have loved nature travel (national parks, camping, etc)

FTOttawa Nov 25th, 2023 06:56 PM

If you’re not shy about changing behind a towel, it’s possible to swim in the river right under the Pont du Gard. Or, if there has not been a drought, you can rent kayaks a bit upstream and paddle down to the bridge. The museum at Pont du Gard is excellent.

The old bauxite quarry in Baux-de-Provence, Carrière des Lumières, has huge art projections on its walls. IIRC there was music piped in as well. It is a wee hike up to the village and even further up to its ruined castle, but there are terrific views and who knows, you might even enjoy the trebuchet and knightly combat demonstrations.

dfourh Nov 26th, 2023 02:19 AM


Originally Posted by FTOttawa (Post 17513015)
If you’re not shy about changing behind a towel, it’s possible to swim in the river right under the Pont du Gard. Or, if there has not been a drought, you can rent kayaks a bit upstream and paddle down to the bridge.

Yes, the kayak tour goes downriver, under the bridge, and then you get picked up by a van to take you back upriver. The swimming is pleasant except you walk into the river over a long patch of stones which are tricky, if not painful underfoot. Market days are always buzzing, and it's also worth checking schedules of events for local festivals https://www.marvellous-provence.com/arts-and-traditions - - every small town has them and the calendar is extensive - - this can include things like folk costume festivals, or the many traditional runnings of the bulls through the town center. Or you can ride white horses in the Camargue: https://coeurdepetitecamargue.fr/en/bouger/a-cheval

Neecy Nov 26th, 2023 02:42 PM

Kayaking there sounds super fun! And I'm checking out the local stuff. Thanks again!!

StuDudley Nov 26th, 2023 04:12 PM


Originally Posted by Neecy (Post 17513162)
Kayaking there sounds super fun! And I'm checking out the local stuff. Thanks again!!

Suggestion!!!

Don't seek out time-consuming events like kayaking. You need to focus on time-efficient things to do & see during your very short visit. The view of the Pont from below and the museum are both very unique. Kayaking is not.

Walk over the Pont instead, and see how the Romans moved water from one side of the gorge to the other side. Do this after visiting the museum, to get the most enjoyment.

Stu Dudley.

KTtravel Nov 26th, 2023 09:51 PM

I disagree with tomboy about going up the Arc de Triomphe or the Eiffel Tower. The top of the "Arc" is not very high but the cars are whizzing around the monument which is fun (but I wouldn't say going up it is a must.) The view is not the same as the one from the Eiffel Tower.

We found the Eiffel Tower to be fun to go up at night. It was beautifully lit, less crowded and every hour on the hour the lights "twinkle" for about five minutes. My teen-aged daughter really enjoyed it.

Berthillon ice cream on the Ile Saint-Louis is definitely worth a stop. Musee de l'Orangerie is my "must see" museum. It doesn't take long to visit and Monet's water lilies are breathtaking.

shelemm Nov 27th, 2023 03:12 AM

The Eiffel Tower at night is like visiting a construction site in the dark, but with crowds. If you want to see the lights twinkle, you need to be away from the tower to appreciate them.

Neecy Nov 28th, 2023 11:46 AM


Originally Posted by StuDudley (Post 17512021)
You just described a 2 week trip to Provence.

Immediately toss out the Gorges du Verdon. We have visited it 3-4 times - and unless you want to take a canoe trip down the gorge (one entire day), you won't see much of the gorge itself (too few lookouts - and they are on scary roads). Plus it is VERY far away. If you have visited the Grand Canyon - you will be disappointed, IMO. Read my itinerary.

Cassis & Calenques are out of the way & a bit time consuming.

Stay in St Remy & visit the stuff around St Remy (les Baux, etc). Then spend a day in the Luberon & visit the hill villages and see some lavendin (hybrid lavender that is more robust & blooms sooner) between Goult & Bonnieux. Then the Pont du Gard & Uzes. Visit at least 1 morning farmer's market. St Remy has a Wednesday market.

See my itinerary!!!

Stu Dudley

Stu--I've been working through guidebooks and your itinerary and settling in on this plan! Thanks a bunch!

The drive from Gordes to St Pantaleon (in the itinerary) is all in one day with stops where you want?

Can I see St Remy and Les Baux in a half day (assuming we stay there, haven't worked on hotel yet)? If so, we have another full day. Vaison la romaine and Dentilles, Lourmarin, Isle, sur la sorgue are all still on my wish list. Is there a logical choice?

Thanks again


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