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Virginia May 23rd, 2002 01:33 PM

English Grandmother
 
I have read many of the posts here and can tell everyone is so knowledgeable about travel-related issues. However, my question deals with something a little different. I am wondering by what term(s) one refers to one's grandmother in the UK. Is "grandmum" usual? If not, what is? I haven't been able to find an answer to my question in books and thought someone here might be able to help me.

xxx May 23rd, 2002 01:37 PM

Gran.

Ruth May 23rd, 2002 01:39 PM

No, I've never heard anyone use "grandmum"! "Gran", "Nan", and "Grandma" are all used.

eva May 23rd, 2002 01:40 PM

nan, nana, gran are the usuals

Ruth May 23rd, 2002 01:40 PM

What do you say in the US?

Am one May 23rd, 2002 01:42 PM

Gaga until they can really speak; then switch to "grandmom"; and the others mentioned above.

Sheila May 23rd, 2002 01:43 PM

Granny and Grandma are the norm round here

Sheila May 23rd, 2002 02:05 PM

Granny and Grandma are the norm round here

Maggie May 23rd, 2002 02:14 PM

In Yorkshire its<BR>Gramma! (Long a at the end)

grandma May 23rd, 2002 07:09 PM

Grandma (sometimes Gran or Granny for short) is normal, Grandmother is affected/stiff, Grandmama (long final A) is acceptable if children spend lots of time on the continent. Nan is rare and only used among the working class - and you'd more say 'my nan' than really address her as Nan. Nana is American. (Generally, the ones starting with N aren't very popular as they are too easily confused by children with Nanny, who is is hired help.) I've never heard Grandmum.

Gareth May 24th, 2002 03:23 AM

In wales we call our grans Mamgu prononced more like mamgee

English May 24th, 2002 03:41 AM

Those of you specifying "long a": Do you really mean that? In the US at least, pronouncing a vowel as "long" means pronouncing it as its own name. "Gramma (long a at the end)" would mean pronouncing it "Grammay."

Ruth May 24th, 2002 04:16 AM

You're right, I think they mean long a as in "are" - grandmar, grandmammar (never spelt like that though).<BR><BR>"Nan" "Nanna" and even "Nanny" are very common round here - it may have been a working class thing, but is very widespread. When my son had a nanny (ie paid help) he addressed her by her first name. He wouldn't have dreamed of calling her "Nanny"! But I expect there are some circles in which this is still the norm. My mother specified that she would object strongly to being called "Nan" - she was hoping for Gumma but has ended up with "Grandma" (and Grandpa, not to leave grandfathers out).

kate May 24th, 2002 04:33 AM

I think there's a lot of regional variation. My parents are from Suffolk, where Nana and Pop (for Grandad) seem to be popular. So my nephews and nieces call them Nana and Pop, even though, in Birmingham where they now live, everyone else is Gran, Granny or Grandma.<BR><BR>I've never heard "Grandmum".

Pauline May 24th, 2002 05:02 AM

I used to have a grandma & grandpa (my late mothers parents) and a grandpa and nanna (my late fathers parents). I would use the surname to distinguish between the grandpa's.

Susan May 24th, 2002 10:11 AM

I used to have a grandma and grandpa (my father's parents from Pennsylvania)and a grandmama and granddaddy (my mother's parents from North Carolina). So even in the U.S. I think the names tend to be different in different parts of the country.

John G May 24th, 2002 10:38 AM

I am American and my mother's mother, Matilda, is from Old Windsor, England. We call her Gran.


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