| Anonymous |
Mar 9th, 2003 03:56 AM |
OK, I'll bite -- the cultural characteristics I've noticed have to do with norms for behavior -- the social conventions about how to express yourself. But all of these are just general agreements about what's acceptable, I don't believe they're inbred. <BR><BR>For instance, in some cultures loud belching is considered a compliment to the chef, whereas in others it's rude. But I bet that in all cultures everyone actually belches about the same amount! (On second thought, local cuisine might be a complicating factor.)<BR><BR>My own experience with "emotional Italians" backs this up, though it's US-based. As an Italian-American who married into an Irish-American family, I find that the Irish folks FEEL the same emotions, they just don't have cultural permission to let it all hang out. (And this is after a couple of generations over here!) When I first met them, my future husband had to have a little talk with me about toning it down, since my normal magnitude of emotional expression alarmed them, since it was at a level that they would resort to only under extreme distress.<BR><BR>So I guess I'm just agreeing with the above posters who commented that this stuff is basically etiquette (i..e, voluntary) and underneath people vary about hte same.<BR><BR>P.S. My Italian-American dad is the "thriftiest" (i.e., cheapest) person I've ever met.
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