i was going to suggest the secrets excellence-riviera maya---- just went to a wedding there and had a blast! but i guess mexico is totally out huh???

or what about the secrets resort in punta cana, DR??

Congratulations ---
We just got married in St. Thomas with our honeymoon in Tortola. Check the Surf Song in Tortola. The people are really nice over there. The beach was very secluded, most of the time we were the only two on the beach. Private chef to prepare a very nice meal and the owners of the place are very, very nice.
The wedding in St. Thomas was out of this world. We got married at Emerald Beach. Make sure to have a wedding planner, they make life a lot ezr.

Good luck