Barbara,

Thank you for your info. Do you mind me asking what your trip cost you. Trying to figure out if $5000 is a realistic estimate. Details appreciated :o)
Sue

So I've read all the posts so far and here are my thoughts... I agree, the beaches and waters of T&C are stunning. The rest of the island did little for me. Grand Cayman and Playa are still recovering from hurricanes. I do enjoy both of them, but not nearly at the same level as St. John and the BVI's. The only island discussed I have not visited is Anguilla. I would trust the comments above regarding your kids.

Back to St. John. All-around best of the islands. Here's the catch.. minimal hotel choices. The Westin is outstanding, but usually runs around $500 a night. (I do recommend traveling in November.. great weather, great deals). Caneel Bay is lovely..way too quiet for kids, even more $$ than Westin. Plan B.. villas. Much cheaper than expected. Lovely homes with pools can be found for around $2000/week. Shop on the web, there's a bunch of websites. St. John is a place where you try a new beach every day. There are guided free hikes through these gorgeous mountains most days. The town of Cruz Bay is cool, funky, island vibe..casual, yet high quality restaurants. Snorkel trips to the BVI are awesome or rent your own boat and travel to the beach bars. I'm rambling.

The BVI have a very similar feel. Beautiful, lush mountains, bordered by white sand beaches and azure blue water. The BEST. I am a value traveler, I read these sites regularly. I want each trip to be the best. You will not go wrong with St. John or the BVI's.

suejk:
Of course, price will vary depending on many factors...length of stay, elaborateness of hotel (or the 'deal' you get!), how much fine dining or excursions you do etc.

That said, we were at STT and ferried to STJ for about $4,500, as I recall. Also took day trip to BVI with Pirates Penny (GREAT!). You can do it cheaper or more expensive, depending on what you're looking for.

Belle