I too noticed ONZGO seems to like to go off on tangents about how much he/she dislikes Aruba. State your opinion and get on with your life.

I too have been places I didn't like but would not try to convenience someone not to go there. Everyone is different and has different likes and dislikes and just because I don't like it doesn't mean everyone on this board will agree with me. I think the same goes for you ONZGO.

cal,
Have you decided on where you will be staying??

I would like to add that if your crowd enjoys snorkeling..I have heard that Baby's beach is a good beach for that.It also has calmer currents than other beaches.

The Renaissance is a great location if you plan on going to Baby beach and Palm or Eagle.It is midway between Baby and Palm/Eagle beaches.

Also I had some of the best food in Aruba...so it would be suggested to not do AI even though it is nice to control the spending.;)

Have a nice trip!

Your welcome ONZGO.
But if someone has already made up their mind that they are going to Aruba..I would not try to talk them out of it.;)

If someone asks "What is Aruba like"..then state what your experienced..I think that it will cause less squabbles.:)

Take care!

I apologize I misread the original posters question. I thought they were looking for a resort for a group family type of vacation. I did give my personal opinion of Aruba and my experiences, but I guess I shouldn't have given another option to this poster of a place and a resort that is almost perfect for what they want. Sorry!

A nice apology ONZGO :-)

I hope you took my posting directed at you as contructive.

I enjoyed Aruba, probably won't go back because there are too many other places to visit.

Keep a lookout for my T&C report - I think you'd like Provo, not too scrubby and NO chain restaurants. I had heard there was a McD but apparently it's on Grand Turks not Provo.

ONZGO,
Ditto what alya said..I meant what I said to be taking constructively.;)

Thanks alya and cristiegr, I don't mind constructive criticism at all and find it is how I can grown and improve, so thank you for your help. :)

I just don't like the comments from a poster saying, :(

"Please disregard ONZGO's comments as she went almost 6 years ago stayed at the HolidaY Inn (not totally all inclusive just has an AI option..) and has been bitter ever since."

Please note I never criticized anyone first, but I found this above comment a personal attack on my character and felt the need to respond to defend myself and my posts.:( I always post factual information in my posts. Sure I went over 5 years ago and sure I did stay in the so called Holiday Inn all inclusive and sure I was not thrilled with Aruba and I have never denied that, but I do have a right to voice my opinion and my experiences in Aruba.

ONZGO,

Keep the faith, woman :-) !

Any forum will have good days and bad. But the bottom line is that it is a forum, where information is shared.

I'm sure there are many here that wish I would keep my *opinionated* mouth shut.

I certainly offer suggestions about other destinations...just in case the OP may want additional information.

Your information about Barcelo Maya was helpful and informative. You considered the needs/wants of the OP and offered a thoughtful alternative.

This should be a learning place :-)

Please continue to contribute !

Marion

Sharyn,
I would have done the same thing as you..when someone attacks my character.:S-

Trust me..I have had a spat or two on this forum.I think that it happens when some people are just having a bad day and need to *vent*.
You are better off to ignore some people..and continue to post on this forum.

Thanks :):):)

Funny thing , I decided Aruba was not my kind of place after seeing it on the Bachelor !!! ( yup .... watched an episode or 2 or 3 !! ) Was fairly certain after descriptions from here ,but even more so after seeing it on T.V. It seems to draw out strong sentiments in people , much the same way Jamaica does . Obviously the O.P. figures it suits her tastes . Each to their own .....

I take it OP means 'original poster'. ???

yup...

faithie?

The Bachelor???? I'm suprised you are willing to admit to it :-)

Then again I suppose there are some nights when there is nothing on the 'box'.

Or is there someting you're hiding - "Hi my name is Faithie and I watch the Bachelor" :-D

Faith,
I have to also admit that I watch the Bachelor..from time to time.:S-

Wasn't that Sarah girl (the snobby one) real sure of herself.I thought that it was funny when Charlie got rid of her and kept Krisily and the other Sarah.:D

Yes .... My name is Faith and I have watched " The Bachelor " . lol .... Just get such a hoot watching that show !!! For a good laugh you should try it ... ( scheduled for Dr. Phil sometime soon for this ) !!!!

Christie

I should talk :-)

I watch the Apprentice, but the recent ones were nothing on the first season.

Somehow the contestants were just 'better' on the first season, and the element of suprise was good, no-one knew what to expect. The last two seasons weren't half as good.

But I'll probably watch the next season.

alya,
I watched the Apprentice a couple of times the first season.:)

My favorite reality show is Survivor.The only one that I have not watched was Africa..I had alot going on when that one was on.I like it because you get to dream of going to an island.:) The Pearl Islands looked really nice.

Faith,
Keep us posted on Dr. Phil.:0

The Pearl Islands look amazing . We looked into going there .... They are suprisingly close to the mainland of Panama , just a hop , skip , and a jump ! The shah of Iran supposedly had a house there .