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crosscheck Aug 17th, 2012 08:11 AM

The sign; Someone asked me to work on a dog-related project. And during the meeting (in a cafe), a jazzy Dylan song was playing, a song that I hadn't heard in years:

If Dogs Run Free

If dogs run free, then why not we
Across the swooping plain?
My ears hear a symphony
Of two mules, trains and rain
The best is always yet to come
That’s what they explain to me
Just do your thing, you’ll be king
If dogs run free

Kathie Aug 17th, 2012 08:17 AM

Lovely, thank you.

Marija Aug 17th, 2012 08:29 AM

So dogster finally slipped into the US, despite his previous legal difficulties. Thanks for telling us, cc.

520 Aug 17th, 2012 08:36 AM

So moving. Thank you.

Smeagol Aug 17th, 2012 12:57 PM

Miss dear Gpanda and now you will be missed my friend. So sad to hear of your passing, the board has lost a charismatic poster. Travel safe dear Dogster, give Gpanda a hug from me. X

Amy Aug 17th, 2012 01:29 PM

This makes me immensely sad. Dogster's writing was magic, and his personality certainly larger than life.

rivet Aug 17th, 2012 01:39 PM

crosscheck, I got Dogster's true name from his geneology site a long time ago, over a year ago, for sure. There were a couple of replies from his family members at that time, though of course I did not know the relationship between the parties, and I didn't find the details as engaging as Dogster's other writings.

I was however, pleased to finally have that mystery of Dog's identity solved. There was an email option on the site and that's how I contacted Dogster; I was glad he was not who I thought he was, and so was he! I admire his accomplishments, but did not know of him or his work prior to that time ...I only know him for the Dog we have grown to love on this forum.

In the only other subsequent email between us, I asked Dogster which cruise was his favorite. He did not single one out but recommended the 20 day Remotest Burma with Pandaw.

Another talent lost.

davispeets Aug 17th, 2012 03:34 PM

This is so sad. I stumbled on his posts and then his blog about a year ago. I was so taken with his writing style at that time that that is all I did for weeks until I read it all. No TV, no fodors, just Dogster.

travelaw Aug 17th, 2012 04:34 PM

Aro-o-o-o-o!

Marija Aug 17th, 2012 05:36 PM

Welcome back, travelaw. I was hoping you'd see this. What a grand time we had when dogster was at the helm.

Bokhara2 Aug 17th, 2012 05:38 PM

Very sorry to hear the news.

Dogster's posts were always pity, entertaining and had an acute eye for the "off stage" moments & players, as well as being a great source of information. I came here this morning as I'm off back to Nepal & adding Bhutan next year & thought I'd trawl through some of his old posts on them.

I didn't know his other life, but again, enjoyed many of his works over the years; saw "Tap Dogs" 3 times - took my nieces & nephews and they were enthralled.

I hope his quote about sitting on a rock at Orpheus Island (in the SMH article 22/2/'97) is the way it was for him.

"And then he talks again of sitting on the rock, and how he had watched the sea and the sunset for a very long time.


" 'The clouds slowed down and suddenly there was a sense of being in the perfect moment. And I thought, 'I can go now.


I have experienced, very briefly, being in the perfect moment.


I can leave now.' "

Saraho Aug 17th, 2012 06:00 PM

Very moving memories of Dogster.

Bokhara2 Aug 17th, 2012 06:28 PM

"Pithy", not "pity" - but you knew that. Empathy was more his thing, I believe.

I just read the story about the boy in the darkened room.

cigalechanta Aug 17th, 2012 06:44 PM

I am sad to read about his death. I visited the Asia board because someone sent me one of his tantalizing trip reports and when there were rumors he was going to attend the Boston GTG, I was disappointed that it was only a doll figure that Bob and GPanda presented to us.

Marija Aug 17th, 2012 06:45 PM

If you read the story here, Bok, instead of on his website, you know about the new uniforms and school tuition from Uncle.
http://www.fodors.com/community/asia...n-varanasi.cfm

Kristina Aug 17th, 2012 08:38 PM

Reading of Dogster's death today made me catch my breath. I found myself instantly sad at the passing of someone I'd never met in the flesh. Like many of you, I was a big fan of his stories. He is missed.

Bokhara2 Aug 17th, 2012 10:02 PM

I do, Marija, thanks. Just didn't want to give the end ge away to others who may not have read it all yet.

Eccentricity is a rare gem and I think it's often our loss when the stones are rumbled into smoothness & uniformity.

Marija Aug 18th, 2012 06:20 AM

Liz Koops and Garry McQuinn from Back Row Productions, whose first and most successful production was Tap Dogs, have remembered Nigel Triffitt in a public statement released last Thursday.

“...Nigel enjoyed his role as eminence terrible, with great and often-impudent good humour he revelled in his latter day renegade status. With a mature equanimity born of the security that success finally brought him, Nigel was graciously confrontational, diplomatically indelicate, and seriously witty."

jacketwatch Aug 18th, 2012 06:38 AM

So well said. Thats the dogster we luv. Nigel must be grinning from above about this. :D

Lookin_Glass Aug 18th, 2012 08:51 AM

I have always been a fan of the dogster. How strange that just last week I commented on a friend wearing a crew Tap Dogs TShirt. How bizarre to see the two worlds collide.

Thanks to everyone that shared links. I now find that I knew both sides of the eclipse of the sun, yet what remains between will always be a joyous enigma.

From one of those links so kindly shared. . . .

"A day later, a reprieve. He telephones. Not only that, he remembers what he said, because the question about joyous moments had worried him. "I thought it rather bleak," he says.

And then he talks again of sitting on the rock, and how he had watched the sea and the sunset for a very long time.

"The clouds slowed down and suddenly there was a sense of being in the perfect moment. And I thought, 'I can go now.

I have experienced, very briefly, being in the perfect moment.

I can leave now.' "

To all who had a more intimate relationship with dogster, my sincere condolences.
RIP dogster, the worlds they do collide.


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