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LeighTravelClub Jun 14th, 2007 03:39 AM

Museum of Sex in Shanghai
 
End of the Bund Sightseeing Tunnel, Binjiang Da Dao, Pudong. Near the ZhengDa Guangchang Shopping Center




There are ten small exhibitions, each focusing on different aspects of sexuality. For example, there's a section on what the translation calls 'abnormal behaviour' such as bestiality and homosexuality (the latter was only declassified as a psychological disorder in China in 2001, but the museum takes a more liberal view towards it). In an attempt to draw comparisons between eastern and western views of sex there are objects from other countries too. All that really gets highlighted though is the fact that western countries have more laid back attitudes – over here you can't buy mugs with handles shaped like naked women.

A large part of the collection features the world of prostitution, such as tea cups which were used in brothels and have pictures of naked women at the bottom. Other exhibits are slightly harder to stomach, for instance a donkey saddle with a wooden dildo attached. Skip to the next paragraph now if you're squeamish. In ancient China, adulterous women were made to sit on the saddle and ride through town. The intention, as the English translation pointedly explains, was to 'ruin them'. Gruesome.

Alongside these attention-grabbing displays are some informative pieces, like the 'trunk bottom' artefacts, which are far less suggestive than their name might imply. When young girls were due to be married, their mothers put little boxes containing copulating figurines at the bottom of a trunk of their possessions. Scrolls of images were included too, so the newly-weds would know what to do on their wedding night and could copy the positions.

Apart from a picture of the world's biggest penis, which will stay with me for a long time, there aren't many photos; mostly the exhibition features ancient items, such as stone dildos or tiny shoes from women who had their feet bound. Amongst other reasons, women were forced to bind their feet so they couldn't walk far, certainly not far enough to leave their husbands, making them slaves sexually and domestically. The point of this museum, unlike some of its European counterparts, is genuinely to educate and not amuse. Who could get the giggles over foot binding?

It's surprising then that the only information on modern day sex, such as condoms and AIDS prevention, is right at the end and only in Chinese. As one of the 20% of foreigners who visit each year, I would like to have learnt more about China's stance on sex education today. Admittedly, the museum is meant to focus on ancient sex culture, but I thought it was with a view to understanding present day attitudes. Perhaps an extra section explaining how ancient culture has, or is supposed to have, influenced modern times would help.

The Tunnel is one of my favourite Shanghai activities. Contrary to its name, it doesn't show you any Bund sights but guides you through varying coloured flashing lights to the rhythmic thumps of an electro track. It's simultaneously funny, scary and exciting.) Couple China's first sex museum and a trip on the Tunnel (20rmb one way) for a uniquely Chinese day out.

massagediva Jun 14th, 2007 04:44 AM

It sounds fascinating.It reminds me of the gabineto secreto in the Archaeological Museum in Naples.It's filled with relics(mostly related to fertility beliefs)found in Pompeii.

Shanghainese Jun 14th, 2007 03:03 PM

There is a similar sex museum in one of the watertowns Tongli, 1.5 hours from Shanghai and 0.5 hours from Suzhou. It is housed in a beautifully landscaped courtyard style mansion on the banks of a small canal flowing into a large lake.

Bound feet was also a status symbol for women of class and wealth, peasant women did not have bound feet as they worked alongside the men in the fields.

rkkwan Jun 14th, 2007 05:57 PM

So, I guess the choices for women were:

- sex slaves
- non-sex slaves

;)

easytraveler Jun 14th, 2007 10:43 PM

Not sure if this is correct, but I believe that Chinese women had bound feet because Chinese men had a foot fetish.

Just like Western women bind their breasts?

Read something to this effect a long time ago, forgot the source.

ekscrunchy Jun 15th, 2007 03:54 AM

In the book, Wild Swans, they describe the process of foot binding and it is not a pretty description...I don't remember all the details but it is truly gruesome and exceedingly painful for the bin-dee. The bones actually crack.

rkkwan Jun 15th, 2007 05:33 AM

Correct. They break the girls' foot bones. So that they can't really walk. Keep them at home. Really.

I used to see some old ladies in Hong Kong villages with bound feet too, when I was a kid. Haven't seen any in many years now.

massagediva Jun 15th, 2007 05:45 AM

Wild Swans-What a terrific book.A must read if you're interested in China.

Shanghainese Jun 15th, 2007 07:41 AM

You are correct, ET, foot fetish was a big thing for Chinese men before feet binding was abolished in 1911, there are paintings in the museum depicting it. In some dynasties (Tang) plump women with large breasts were favored, in other times women bound their chests.


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