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Tere Jun 24th, 2009 10:29 AM

I'm very tempted to go to Bali alone...
 
I was in Bali some years ago with my now grown up kids and loved it. I always wanted to return..

I saw a great flight deal with Singapore Airlines for February and I am very tempted to book it, though I would go alone....

I need some encouragement from you, I guess!!. :-)
- Is February a good time to go?
- I am in my early 50s and used to travel alone but not this far....I live in Western Europe.

- What do you think? Should I book it??

Thanks

Teresa

Kathie Jun 24th, 2009 10:33 AM

I'd book it! Go for it!

There are some great airfare deals as well as hotel deals. Now would be a great time to take advantage of it. As you know, Bali is a wonderfully warm place to go. You'll be well taken care of.

rhkkmk Jun 24th, 2009 10:37 AM

i think you would be just fine there....picking the right place or places to stay would make all the difference....sanur is very nice as is ubud....both are towns with all the services you might need...seminyak is also a good choice....

thursdaysd Jun 24th, 2009 10:41 AM

Go for it! I spent time in Jakarta and Yogyakarta alone, Bali would be a breeze. If you go over to the Travel Tips board you'll find several threads on solo travel.

Tere Jun 24th, 2009 10:52 AM

Thank you all so much for your encouragement!!´That's what I needed.

Should I make a stopover in Singapore? I was never there and the tariff is almost the same.

cruisinred Jun 24th, 2009 10:55 AM

I'm going by myself in September. I'll be sure to report back!
Go ahead and book it Tere!

Kathie Jun 24th, 2009 04:12 PM

If you haven't been to Singapore, I think a few days stopover is well worth it.

impacked Jun 24th, 2009 04:16 PM

Another for Go For It!! I had never traveled alone and at 58 I went 2 years ago on my own. My husband did meet me 10 days later so I could then introduce him to everyone I met. I was never felt lonely, left out and it did not stop me from doing anything because I was alone. I went to the nightly dances, took cooking lessons and hired a guide to hike to the top of the volcano! I also had a massage or facial everyday and caught up many books I never had the opportunity to read. It was very inpowering for me.

Bushranger Jun 24th, 2009 04:53 PM

Travelling to Bali alone ought to be OK, though there'll be usual touts and thieves to be even more aware of.

I'm always a fan of taking a break on longer flights to make jetlag easier to deal with whilst it also gives you an opportunity to see different places you otherwise wouldn't.

Check out www.tigerairways.com , budget subsidiary of Singapore Airlines for great deals all throughout Asia and even on to Australia.
Another likely cheaper option for you would be to take easyjet or one of the other budget airlines over to England and then use www.airasia.com to fly to Kuala Lumpur.

The only downside of Bali for you will be the weather, February being height of wet season, it's south of the equator whereas it'll be different north of the equator and from KL you could go to LangKawi, any of the Thai islands, or Tioman [ once in worlds top ten] down in southern Malaysia, and also easily accessed from Singapore and flights between KL and Singapore can be next to nothing as they can be from KL to many interesting destinations.

Femi Jun 24th, 2009 05:08 PM

You'll regret not grabbing the chance!

As long as you know how to keep yourself occupied, you'll have a great time.

Femi Jun 24th, 2009 05:19 PM

PS. Yes, you should stop over in Singapore.

huddoshols Jun 24th, 2009 09:41 PM

I have just returned from Bali and had a wonderful time. Although I was with my husband I would have no problems going by myself. Try to spend a few days in Ubud as well. Everything was very easy and you will see Bali has certainly changed. A couple of days stopover in Singapore would be good.
I travel alot there for work and there is alot to do and buy.
Go on a city tour. You will have a fabulous time.

goalis7continents Jun 24th, 2009 10:09 PM

Life is short - why not :) I just turned 50 & this is my year of 50 new things. I am traveling from California to Bali in July - solo. I have family that I will be meeting for some evenings, but all day trips on my own. I am bringing some great books for down time & I can't wait to explore - Have fun!

mrwunrfl Jun 24th, 2009 10:40 PM

I visited Bali solo and loved it (even tho I got ill for a couple of days). Hire Putu to drive you around to some interesting places.

Tere Jun 25th, 2009 12:55 AM

Well, I have to say that your feedback ancouraged me to do it and I just bought the ticket!!!!!Woooow

Can you believe I paid 361 euros for a R/T with Singapore Airlines from Milan to Denpasar with a stopover in Singapore on the way back ????? How could I miss this bargain and not return to wonderful Bali?

Again, thank you so much for all your help and ideas!!:-)

I will keep you posted!

Teresa

Femi Jun 25th, 2009 05:11 AM

Good for you Teresa!

Goalis7- I love the idea of 50 new things :)

thursdaysd Jun 25th, 2009 06:05 AM

Great fare! Have a wonderful trip.

Goalis7 - "I am bringing some great books" - books weigh so heavy - I've started putting books on tape (from the library) on my iPod and taking that.

goalis7continents Jun 25th, 2009 06:55 AM

thursdaysd - thanks for the ipod/book tip - I am going to look into that today.

mohan Jun 25th, 2009 10:28 AM

tere: if you are going to Singapore in Feb, bear in mind Chinese new year lies on feb 14th. It is a big occasion and it will be fun for you to see how the Chinese celebrate their new year and the coming year is the year of the tiger.

jules39 Jun 25th, 2009 10:29 AM

Bali was actually the first place I travelled to alone (oh so many many years ago!!!) & it was great. A friend was supposed to be coming with me but backed out at the last minute & I just decided to do it. Had a great time. Have a wonderful trip.

mohan Jun 25th, 2009 10:34 AM

Bali might be a bit more crowded and more expensive because Chinese New year is a big holiday.

Gpanda Jun 25th, 2009 11:31 AM

Way to go. All of us here support impulse buying. We are rarely disappointed. In fact, recently, we were made aware of great JFK-BKK fares on Singapore Air and RhkKmk and my wife bought tickets within 1/2 hour.

We're hoping we can get good fares on Singapore Air for Bali in May 2010. We'll see.

Tere Jun 25th, 2009 12:41 PM

Such good feedback, here!!

Actually I will arrive in Singapore on the 15th February....! Maybe that's why I was looking at the hotels for those dates and many are already fully booked!!!

I think I'd better book it soon!

Do you think Bali will also get full at that time? They have nothing to do with Chinese year....

marmot Jun 25th, 2009 03:25 PM

Tere, Bali is busy at Lunar New Year because many people from the region, including Indonesian Chinese and expats, go on holiday at that time and Bali is a popular destination.

I know quite a few women who have traveled solo in Bali. I'd say the success rate depended mostly on how comfortable they were operating on their own -- which it sounds like you are.

The only real complaint I heard was that it was hard to find a gathering place where travelers can strike up a conversation. There aren't too many Americans in Bali and although the Australians and Kiwis are very outgoing, the Europeans and Asians tend not to initiate conversation with strangers. The honeymooners are on their own planet.

The Balinese will, of course, love to talk to to you, more than you'd probably desire :) This is partly due to "practicing English" but also from their profound sense of hospitality. If you're by yourself they assume you want to talk to them -- during your massage, the drive, dinner, walk on the beach.

Bushranger Jun 25th, 2009 11:19 PM

That's a super fare Tere, far better I'd suspect than any budget airlines combo.

For Singapore, I think it is the YWCA that actually have a hotel type property, probably about three star and having noticed it one time when in Singapore, I looked it up on the web and they have top facilities at a good price and also great location, kind of in parkland area down near River and Raffles Hotel.

If you haven't been to Singapore, alcohol is enormously expensive but because weather is always warm, there used to be Kiosks in the Riverside parklands [and if still there] along with food vendors and so you could buy something to eat and get a bottle of beer [not sure on wine] pretty cheap there.
Lots of dining down along the River Quay now, Chinatown and India area too and a few reasonably priced bars about, one I remember in lane alongside Raffles - it had a western [as in cowboys] sounding name, maybe Stock and Barrel!

Bali ought to be low season because of the weather and it might even pay to see what specials you can get on arrival if willing, maybe a 5* at a 3* price or check out on sites like www.asiarooms.com as they usually list specials.

mohan Jun 26th, 2009 04:43 AM

If you are arriving on Feb 15th, i suspect most shops and restaurants are closed. I believe they usually closed for a minimum of three days for the celebration. To make sure, you can start a fresh topic so someone in the region can respond to you. It's good to know what to expect.

Tere Jun 26th, 2009 04:45 AM

Bushranger, I have been looking at the 5* hotels in Bali and didn't find any cheap specials for February... In fact , they are quite expensive!

Maybe they will put the specials later...

Singapore Airlines has Singapore stopover holidays, with hotel + transfers + atractions entries but they only have a few nice hotels to choose from. Do you think it's worth booking with them?

Two days ago they had the Traders for 70 euros on that package and yesterday it was already at 114 euros, so I don't know whether to book or to wait...

spassvogel Jun 26th, 2009 10:57 AM

I would jump on it!
Does it make such a difference whether the destination is more remote from home?
See it as a "baptism of fire" ;-)
Enjoy yourself!

SV

spassvogel Jun 26th, 2009 11:00 AM

Regarding the rates - Feb is not peak season anymore (Australians and Europeans will be back from their NYE holidays) - I would gamble and wait.
The credit crunch will definately have a further impact as time goes by - at least for the next 18 - 24 months at least. And that will "help".

Good luck!

SV

Kathie Jun 26th, 2009 12:05 PM

I would wait to book Bali hotels. I expect prices will come down.

The Singapore Air stopovers are worthwhile if they have great hotel rates. If not, book on your own. Hotel transfers are easy and reasonable, and I never find I get value from the "attractions" entries (they usually don't seem very attractive to me).

For comparison purposes, take a look at a good hotel booking site like agoda.com Usually tax and service and often, breakfast are included in the agoda rates.

mohan Jun 26th, 2009 08:38 PM

I hate to add confusion to the issue but I would not wait till the last minute to book the Bali hotel. Reasons being again Chinese New Year is a big holiday and Feb is winter in Hong Kong and Taiwan. Bali being sun and beach and way cheaper and close by is like Mexico to the American and the Canadians in the Christmas season.

That said, i think you can always find some type of accommodation in Bali, it just may not be your ideal kind of place with the best price that's all.

mrwunrfl Jun 26th, 2009 09:59 PM

I would book a hotel now at a refundable rate and then rebook later if the prices drop.

Bushranger Jun 27th, 2009 11:29 PM

Two alternatives there Tere, wait and see or book now!
But what you said yourself - you're unlikely to see specials marketed until much later this year.
Much agree with Spassvogel and Kathie for Bali but if Singapore looks tight and there's a special, grab it.

marmot Jun 28th, 2009 01:37 AM

Bali will be busy the week of CNY, i.e., February 13-21 and many resorts will apply high seasons rates. I enigma of reserving in Bali is that the earlier you book the more you pay. I think that is especially true this year. Because reservations for European summer/Australian winter were confirmed and mostly paid for months ago, Bali hasn't yet felt the full affect of the global recession and downturn in travel. They will, but my guess is that it will just cause them to jack up prices during peak travel periods like Idul Fitri, Christmas, CNY and Easter.

I would book now, but with a later confirmation/cancellation date and I wouldn't agree to early payment.

Tere Jun 28th, 2009 04:19 AM

Thank you so much for your input. I will book only if it's not prepaid, there are still many months to go and I don't like to pay for hotels so much in advance.

If , in the meantime , rates drop, I will cancel and make other reservations.

I think you are right Marmot. Bali maybe didn't feel the crisis yet. I even emailed the Kupu Kupu Barong because they have a luxury package for 7 nights for 2 in their two properties for $1.990 and asked them if they could price it for a single person and the reply was that I would pay the same , get 2 massages instead of 1, 2 dinners instead of 1....

marmot Jun 28th, 2009 03:16 PM

Tere, how generous of them! Do they expect you to eat both dinners simultaneously?

I'd suggest that you try the Uma or the Alila.


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