With dozens of adventures, discoveries, and fun-filled beach days, Hawaii is a blast with kids. Even better, the things to do here do not appeal only to small fry. The entire family, parents included, will enjoy surfing, discovering a waterfall in the rain forest, and snorkeling with sea turtles. And there are plenty of organized activities for kids that will free parents' time for a few romantic beach strolls.
Resorts: All of the big resorts make kids' programs a priority, and it shows. When you are booking your room, ask about "kids eat free" deals and the number of kids' pools at the resort. Also check out the size of the groups in the children's programs, and find out whether the cost of the programs includes lunch, equipment, and activities.
In Waikiki your best bet for kids is the Hilton Hawaiian Village, where there's a large beach and loads of kids' programs. Another good choice is the Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort, which has a variety of programs for kids as well. Other options include the Waikiki Beach Hotel and the Sheraton Princess Kaiulani.
Condos: Condo and vacation rentals are a fantastic value for families vacationing in Hawaii. You can cook your own food, which is cheaper than eating out and sometimes easier (especially if you have a finicky eater in your group), and you'll get twice the space of a hotel room for about a quarter of the price. If you decide to go the condo route, be sure to ask about the size of the complex's pool (some try to pawn a tiny soaking tub off as a pool) and whether barbecues are available. One of the best parts of staying in your own place is having a sunset family barbecue by the pool or overlooking the ocean.
For the ultimate condo experience on Oahu Marriott's Ko Olina Beach Club can't be beat. Sheltered beaches, four pools, barbecue and children's play areas, combined with large kitchens and an on-site grocery store, make this the best condo option for families. In Waikiki, the Castle Waikiki Shore is the only beachfront condo property. Outrigger Luana offers barbecues, a pool, and recreational areas near Fort DeRussy on Waikiki beach.
Hawaii is all about getting your kids outside—away from TV and video games. And who could resist the turquoise water, the promise of spotting dolphins or whales, and the fun of boogie boarding or surfing?
On the Beach: Most people like being in the water, but toddlers and school-age kids tend to be especially enamored of it. The swimming pool at your condo or hotel is always an option, but don't be afraid to hit the beach with a little one in tow. There are several beaches in Hawaii that are nearly as safe as a pool—completely protected bays with pleasant white-sand beaches. As always, use your judgment, and heed all posted signs and lifeguard warnings.
In Waikiki, your best bets for young children are Kuhio Beach Park and Fort DeRussy Beach Park. Both have water protected from a strong shore break and a wide stretch of sand. On the Windward side, your best bets are Kailua Beach park with its shade trees and good bathroom and shower facilities or ultracalm Lanikai beach. North Shore beaches are only recommended for children in the summer months and of these, Waimea Bay's wide stretch of sand and good facilities ranks as the best for kids. On the Leeward side of the island, KoOlina's protected beaches are great for families with small children.
On the Waves: Surf lessons are a great idea for older kids, especially if mom and dad want a little quiet time. Beginner lessons are always on safe and easy waves and last anywhere from two to four hours.
Waikiki is THE place for everyone to learn to surf, including kids. Some hotels, including the Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort and Spa, offer in-house surf schools. Or, for a unique experience, try Hawaiian Fire, Inc. These off-duty Honolulu fire fighters teach water safety in addition to surfing in their two-hour lessons near Barber's Point (starting at $97).
The Underwater World: If your kids are ready to try snorkeling, Hawaii is a great place to introduce them to the underwater world. Even without the mask and snorkel, they'll be able to see colorful fish darting this way and that, and they may also spot turtles and dolphins at many of the island beaches.
On Oahu the quintessential snorkeling experience can be had at Hanauma Bay. After viewing an educational film about Hawaii's underwater world, and descending into a half-submerged volcano, kids have an opportunity not only to see hundreds of species of fish in protected waters but to enjoy a wide stretch of beach as well. In summer months only, Shark's Cove on the North Shore is an interesting experience for older kids who have learned the basics of snorkeling at Hanauma Bay.
In addition to beach experiences, Hawaii has rain forests, botanical gardens, numerous aquariums (Oahu and Maui take the cake), and even petting zoos and hands-on children's museums that will keep your kids entertained and out of the sun for a day.
Oahu is fortunate to have the largest variety of land-based experiences in the Islands. Kids can visit the Honolulu Zoo for a sleepover, touch fishy friends at the Waikiki Aquarium, help in a dolphin training session at Sea Life Park, or even learn to husk a coconut at the Polynesian Culture Center. For kids who need some room to roam, Hoomaluhia Gardens offers wide open spaces and a pond complete with ducks while Kualoa Ranch is the place for horseback riding.
At night, younger kids get a kick out of luaus, and many of the shows incorporate young audience members, adding to the fun. The older kids might find it all a bit lame, but there are a handful of new shows in the Islands that are more modern, incorporating acrobatics, lively music, and fire dancers. If you're planning on hitting a lu'au with a teen in tow, we highly recommend going the modern route.
Cirque du Soleil's Waikiki production (opening summer 2008) will keep even teens in your family entertained, while the Paradise Cove Luau offers fire dancers and kid-friendly games.