Mindful Relocation, Where do I belong?
Mar 25th, 2012, 06:31 PM
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Mindful Relocation, Where do I belong?
I'm in my early 30's and from New England. I'm not a fan of the winters here and the summer can be very trying on the patience when is comes to dealing with the volume of tourists that invade Cape cod MA in the summer months. Although the spring and fall months are typically beautiful. The catch is that the 20/early 30's crowd doesn't stick around here.
Right now my career is up in the air. I see myself working in the health/nutrition or holistic health industry or in the veterinary industry. I would like to have access to meeting more single men that would like to seriously date and female/male friends with common interests. I like the outdoors, working out, art, music, yoga. I also see myself living in a community that is health conscious, has a good mix of nature and plenty of activities that more metro places would offer. I am not into major hustle and bustle, although it would be nice to live within reasonable proximity of 'Things to do'. I also like living near the coast, but its not a deal breaker for me if i were to be inland.
P.S. I am looking for places inside of the US, Thanks!
Right now my career is up in the air. I see myself working in the health/nutrition or holistic health industry or in the veterinary industry. I would like to have access to meeting more single men that would like to seriously date and female/male friends with common interests. I like the outdoors, working out, art, music, yoga. I also see myself living in a community that is health conscious, has a good mix of nature and plenty of activities that more metro places would offer. I am not into major hustle and bustle, although it would be nice to live within reasonable proximity of 'Things to do'. I also like living near the coast, but its not a deal breaker for me if i were to be inland.
P.S. I am looking for places inside of the US, Thanks!
Mar 25th, 2012, 07:03 PM
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Could you start with a list of 6 to 10 towns/cities that you would consider and spend 4-5 days in each?
How would you feel not living within an hour of an ocean?
Most of Arizona is quite hot in the summer.
How would you feel not living within an hour of an ocean?
Most of Arizona is quite hot in the summer.
Mar 25th, 2012, 08:43 PM
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A bit confusing . . . You tagged this for Arizona, but would like to live on the coast if possible.
Are you seeking recommendations for anyplace in the States, or on the West coast, or in Arizona??
Are you seeking recommendations for anyplace in the States, or on the West coast, or in Arizona??
Mar 26th, 2012, 03:24 AM
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visitsantafe.com
nice mix of everything you want and quite pretty
visitsedona.com beautiful sort of small touristy
Austin Texas Hill Country
Skads of upwardly mobile young folks pretty great hiking
orangebeach.com near PensaCola FL best beach vibe
property values for coastal location
Sarasota FL longboat key area more $$$ super nice
TX FL AL gets humid and hot in summer AC a must
Happy Hunting!
nice mix of everything you want and quite pretty
visitsedona.com beautiful sort of small touristy
Austin Texas Hill Country
Skads of upwardly mobile young folks pretty great hiking
orangebeach.com near PensaCola FL best beach vibe
property values for coastal location
Sarasota FL longboat key area more $$$ super nice
TX FL AL gets humid and hot in summer AC a must
Happy Hunting!
Mar 26th, 2012, 03:34 AM
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forgot,lajolla.com best climate of all but at a price.
Very pretty my west coast fav. Pacific NW beautiful green
too rainy and water too cold expensive to live there for me.
Best values on Gulf Coast picked up a cute seaside village property appraised at $600K for $40K at villagetannin.com recently.Lived a lot of different places worldwide best value/deals/prices for me in the US currently. zillow.com
best real estate site for me.
Good luck!
Very pretty my west coast fav. Pacific NW beautiful green
too rainy and water too cold expensive to live there for me.
Best values on Gulf Coast picked up a cute seaside village property appraised at $600K for $40K at villagetannin.com recently.Lived a lot of different places worldwide best value/deals/prices for me in the US currently. zillow.com
best real estate site for me.
Good luck!
Mar 26th, 2012, 03:55 AM
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You are getting good suggestions, so I will ask you some different questions.
Unless you have a trust fund or other kind of financial settlement, the tough issue today will be finding a source of income that allows you to move forward with your life. Any of these places would allow you to have jobs similar to the kind of jobs you would have on the Cape: enough to live with roommates, not enough probably to save up for anything better, whether housing or your own business, without working a second job at least part of the time.
Related to this is your skill set. If you want to be a vet, you will need a veterinary degree. Sick kitties or sick cows? Very different. If you want to work in the "veterinary industry", resign yourself to low pay. Even vets don't make big bucks, at least according to my cousin.
If you want to work in holistic health or nutrition, how will you get the credentials to practice? If you just want to work in the "health/nutrition industry" does that mean working in a health food store or Whole Foods or on an organic farm? None of this is to discourage you but just to help you work through some practical issues.
If you are pulled toward helping people be healthy, would you be willing to get an RN and maybe BSN? Have you ever worked with a physician's assistant (not someone who takes temperatures in a doctor's office but a qualified professional who focuses on patient care as much as diagnoses)? Nurse practitioners do many similar things, and I have found both professions to be excellent help in managing my own health issues.
Do you have a command of a foreign language? A lot of people on the Cape speak some or a lot of Portugese. Could you be a translator in a hospital or court? Health qualifications and a foreign language are often a killer combination.
Anything that involves taking care of older people is a growth industry, not just health care but helping them deal with all sorts of issues. Any attraction to social work?
First figure out what you want to do -- or at least try out, no career is permanent -- then figure out how much you need to earn, then find out what qualifications you need to do it, and then find the place that will best meet your goals for getting and using your qualifications.
Unless you have a trust fund or other kind of financial settlement, the tough issue today will be finding a source of income that allows you to move forward with your life. Any of these places would allow you to have jobs similar to the kind of jobs you would have on the Cape: enough to live with roommates, not enough probably to save up for anything better, whether housing or your own business, without working a second job at least part of the time.
Related to this is your skill set. If you want to be a vet, you will need a veterinary degree. Sick kitties or sick cows? Very different. If you want to work in the "veterinary industry", resign yourself to low pay. Even vets don't make big bucks, at least according to my cousin.
If you want to work in holistic health or nutrition, how will you get the credentials to practice? If you just want to work in the "health/nutrition industry" does that mean working in a health food store or Whole Foods or on an organic farm? None of this is to discourage you but just to help you work through some practical issues.
If you are pulled toward helping people be healthy, would you be willing to get an RN and maybe BSN? Have you ever worked with a physician's assistant (not someone who takes temperatures in a doctor's office but a qualified professional who focuses on patient care as much as diagnoses)? Nurse practitioners do many similar things, and I have found both professions to be excellent help in managing my own health issues.
Do you have a command of a foreign language? A lot of people on the Cape speak some or a lot of Portugese. Could you be a translator in a hospital or court? Health qualifications and a foreign language are often a killer combination.
Anything that involves taking care of older people is a growth industry, not just health care but helping them deal with all sorts of issues. Any attraction to social work?
First figure out what you want to do -- or at least try out, no career is permanent -- then figure out how much you need to earn, then find out what qualifications you need to do it, and then find the place that will best meet your goals for getting and using your qualifications.
Mar 26th, 2012, 05:15 AM
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I second tomfuller's suggestion of narrowing down and then visiting places.
You might like to check out the Mount Airy/Chestnut Hill area of Philadelphia. It's within city limits but you don't feel like you're in the city; you can live walking distance to beautiful, big parks where again you can't believe you're within city limits; many health conscious people, such that there are two food co-op locations, many yoga and massage practices, etc.; easy commuter rail into center city for all kinds of other activities; plenty of people your age to meet; wonderful live music venues in the city and some smaller ones in the neighborhoods themselves as well; 90 minute drive to the Jersey shore, easily done in a day trip.
You might like to check out the Mount Airy/Chestnut Hill area of Philadelphia. It's within city limits but you don't feel like you're in the city; you can live walking distance to beautiful, big parks where again you can't believe you're within city limits; many health conscious people, such that there are two food co-op locations, many yoga and massage practices, etc.; easy commuter rail into center city for all kinds of other activities; plenty of people your age to meet; wonderful live music venues in the city and some smaller ones in the neighborhoods themselves as well; 90 minute drive to the Jersey shore, easily done in a day trip.
Mar 26th, 2012, 05:23 AM
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You need to consider what makes you employable, or how you are going to fund a course of study. Only you can research what schools are available for the type of veterinary you are interested in. That is going to eliminate many potential places.
Sedona is also a tourist town and chock full of alternative health and spa-type practitioners. An expensive and isolated place. New Mexico may not have the opportunities, either.
Sedona is also a tourist town and chock full of alternative health and spa-type practitioners. An expensive and isolated place. New Mexico may not have the opportunities, either.
Mar 26th, 2012, 05:59 AM
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Start with a couple of years in Ithaca New York.
http://www.vet.cornell.edu/
Their vet school is top notch and you have plenty of recreational opportunities and plenty of very smart people in your search for a spouse.
http://www.vet.cornell.edu/
Their vet school is top notch and you have plenty of recreational opportunities and plenty of very smart people in your search for a spouse.
Mar 26th, 2012, 06:17 AM
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From the range of careers you have listeed it sounds like you arent; really qualified fr anything yet. I thnk your first ste is to determine which you are really interested in and how long the training will be (some seems to be farily quick - but others are 6 year degree progrms). Then what locations have openings in those fields and what kind of salary they pay.
(If you want to be a vet you can make a deent living. If you're talking about working in a vet's office - most of the staff - unless traind nurses - make little more than working a counter at Mickey D's - and it's really not a viable career unles you are in a muti-income household.)
(If you want to be a vet you can make a deent living. If you're talking about working in a vet's office - most of the staff - unless traind nurses - make little more than working a counter at Mickey D's - and it's really not a viable career unles you are in a muti-income household.)
Mar 26th, 2012, 06:45 AM
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If Cape winters are making the OP nuts, then an Ithaca, N.Y. winter will send him screaming down Interstate 90, tomfuller!
(It is now more difficult to be accepted into Any vet school than it is to get into Medical school.)
(It is now more difficult to be accepted into Any vet school than it is to get into Medical school.)
Mar 26th, 2012, 07:47 AM
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Yet again a Portland OR. vote.
1 1/2 hr to Ocean, 1hr to mountains, Warm in summer, yes rain in winter but not as much as Seattle. ( 2 episodes of snow this year melted 1-2 hrs.) A very "green"approach to lifestyle. City has developed many bike trails. Nice suburbs.
I live near San Francisco but would not want to live there...housing very expensive, traffic getting worse---although I love the ambiance and the weather--lots of fog !!
Good Luck
PS Across the River from Portland is Vancouver WA. less crowded and housing more reasonable
1 1/2 hr to Ocean, 1hr to mountains, Warm in summer, yes rain in winter but not as much as Seattle. ( 2 episodes of snow this year melted 1-2 hrs.) A very "green"approach to lifestyle. City has developed many bike trails. Nice suburbs.
I live near San Francisco but would not want to live there...housing very expensive, traffic getting worse---although I love the ambiance and the weather--lots of fog !!
Good Luck
PS Across the River from Portland is Vancouver WA. less crowded and housing more reasonable
Mar 26th, 2012, 09:28 AM
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You may have the cold winters but the south has brutal summers. You better visit during the middle of the summer before making that decision. The rest of the year is pretty delightful compared to where you are from.
I've lived in the south my whole life and you don't get acclimated to it. You just stay indoors for 2-3 months.
I've lived in the south my whole life and you don't get acclimated to it. You just stay indoors for 2-3 months.
Mar 26th, 2012, 01:32 PM
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Bowsprit,
Did you get your answer about airports?
I think Pensacola (PNS) is a half-hour or so closer than Mobile (MOB).
LapisStar,
I'm not sure the upper Gulf Coast is what you are looking for. Good for families, but maybe not as exciting for singles. Definitely lacking in metro-type "things to do". Also, as others have said, hot and humid many months of the year (but not as humid as the inland South!).
Did you get your answer about airports?
I think Pensacola (PNS) is a half-hour or so closer than Mobile (MOB).
LapisStar,
I'm not sure the upper Gulf Coast is what you are looking for. Good for families, but maybe not as exciting for singles. Definitely lacking in metro-type "things to do". Also, as others have said, hot and humid many months of the year (but not as humid as the inland South!).
