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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 10:58 AM
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in Paris.. last days of trip.. hubby in bed with a cold.. daughter out... whats a fodorite to do

Hi last few days of our trip.. thanks to everyone who helped..
things we have learned.. loved or hated.
1.Virgin Atlantic in first class does allow you a guest in the lounges.. did that for our daughter... as my husband said that"was one expensive shower" the revival lounge.. not mentioned..30 pounds.. at that point we were there.. at least she ate breakfast too!
2.Oxford was lovely.. didnt make it to Cheltenham to see my parents hometown. too jet lagged.
3. Horrible London weather.. be prepared for anything.. we were soaked and cold
4. Paris.. love our apt in Monmarte.. is great.. needed to plan some days better, it worked fine in coming back around 2 for naps.. today though at 5 we blew off the concert at St Chappelle ,even though we had paid for.. too many metros.. and oh our apt has 98 stairs..area is wonderful though. I never thought I would let my 20 yr old out by herself.. but it is a nice smaller area.. not so touristy..so many interesting places to walk.

well heck.. the sky is beautiful so I think Ill go read...and have some wine..
LOVED Versailles yesterday.. best way to rent bikes there.. that was THE best thing sooooo fun...saw it like we never would have imagined.. lots more restaurants.. ate at an ok one.. wish they had better info on the few that are there.. so anyway there are nice places.. of course the price is high.. but what isnt? We seem to have gone through so much cash... what the heck!..anyway if you do Versailles do the bikes.. you can rent them by the grand Canal.. we were going to do the Fat tires..but weather has been so iffy.. this was much better..

later!... so does anyone else have stories of sitting by yourself with a sick or tired partner? things that dont go the way we planned...
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 11:06 AM
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thanks for the update. I was in the UK last week and had weather anywhere from 40s + gale-force winds and rain; to 70s sunny. I have learned to always bring a scarf, a lightweight cashmere sweater, and an umbrella with me, esp going to the UK

Regarding getting sick, I actually got quite sick in Vienna. I felt really bad for DH. We had just flown into Vienna from London early in the morning, and I started throwing up as soon as the plane landed. I felt so bad that I couldn't even take any transportation from the airport into the city - I had to lie down on a bench in the terminal. Poor DH had to go to a newstand shop to ask for a plastic bag for me.

Eventually we took a cab to the hotel (with me clutching the vomit bag) and I lay in bed all day.

I sent DH out to get himself some lunch and run some errands (pick up concert tickets I had pre-booked). Fortunately, he's a really good sport and he doesn't mind sitting on a bench and people-watch.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 11:11 AM
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Sounds like a great time to start your trip report

Hope hubby is feeling better soon and he is not generous with his germs.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 11:56 AM
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Sounds like a good time to seek out the activities in Paris that would interest you but you wouldn't do if your husband was with you for the day because they don't interest him as much. Particular interests? Art, music, shopping? So much Paris, so little time.
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"I never thought I would let my 20 yr old out by herself" - did I read that right??? You weren't planning on letting a 20 year old walk around Paris alone? You do know there are kids backpacking around Europe (and Asia and other continents) younger than that?
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 12:36 PM
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My husband was sick when we were in Munich, and he just stayed at the hotel and read his book. I went around by myself...
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 12:39 PM
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thursdaysd,you took the words right out of my mouth - the jaw of said mouth fell open when I read that!
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 12:41 PM
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My heart also missed a beat when I read <i>I never thought I would let my 20 yr old out by herself.</i>

You're just lucky she ever came back, assuming that she did. I think I would just keep running with that attitude.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 01:24 PM
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If my hubby wants to rest, I go off alone so I can play with my camera, and just wander around blissfully.

We have been fortunate to remain in good health on our trips, except last year. H. got terrible stomach issues and couldn't leave the room. We were supposed to check out (Brussels) and go on the train to Paris. I spent some time on the laptop rebooking train tickets, emailing our Paris hotel, talking to the Brussels hotel desk clerk (who offered to get a doctor), then finally I went out to the Brussels city musuem to see the Mannequin Pis costumes, and took some pix of the comic murals I found...

Hubby was able to drag out of bed the next morning to go to the train station. I told him he could be sick in Paris
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 01:42 PM
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&quot;I never thought I would let my 20 yr old out by herself..&quot;

Wow.. with any luck she's now pregnant and strung out on meth. God forbid she be alone... in Paris.

Oh well, to each their own.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 02:59 PM
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&quot;You do know there are kids backpacking around Europe (and Asia and other continents) younger than that?&quot;

Not to mention the thousands of exchange students at any one time.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 03:00 PM
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I forgot that on our recent trip to Hong Kong, DH caught some GI illness! I got him a couple bottles of gatorade and then I went out by myself for the morning. By mid-afternoon he felt better so he came out to join me.

Hope your husband is better by now!
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Agreed - you &quot;let&quot; you 20 year old out alone. Unless your &quot;child&quot; is handicapped in some way I don't understand the &quot;let&quot; part- she's an adult and can do whatever she wants.

Is she &quot;let&quot; out alone at home?

Paris is hardly a dangerous city, and when we visited with our 11 and 14 yeard olds they went off shopping by themselves acouple of afternoons (although I wouldn't have let them stay out alone after dinner). Thy've both been back there with friends - one at 18 and one at 19 - along with hundreds of thousnds of other young tourists. It's hardly a dangerous city and I don;t understand your fears about a grown woman dealing with it on her own.

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My very first day in Paris, my first trip out of the US, my friend was sick and refused to budge from bed. NO WAY was I &quot;sitting by myself&quot; in Paris!! It is so liberating to go and see the city alone! If you're going to sit and read, do it at Shakespeare and Company or in the Tuileries. Or do as I did; took the Metro to The Louvre, wandered at my own pace, went to the little post office there and purchased stamps and mailed postcards, wandered in the gardens, stopped for a coffee and people watched. Or go to a smaller museum like Marmottan or the Picasso, which are more manageable and in charming neighborhoods. Take you book along and read it in a little cafe and enjoy having the world's most beautiful city as your companion for the day.
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Old Jun 5th, 2008, 09:56 PM
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Several years ago I was so sick in Paris, I literally could not get out of bed. Not that I didn't want to, but simply couldn't. High fever, coughing, aching all over, etc. Influenza, I think. So frustrating for my dear husband. I was too sick to care. He became worried, because I never get sick like that. So he asked at the hotel desk downstairs and they called a doctor for me. The doctor came into the room, a very handsome, well-dressed man, seeming somewhat taken aback to find this woman in bed clothed in long woolen underwear. He examined me, said a few things in French, then wrote out a series of prescriptions and instructed my husband to get them filled at the pharmacy down the street. This was early evening. The next day I felt weak but well enough to accompany my husband on a walking tour of Montmartre! It was February and snowing! Two days later it was as if I had never been ill. I kid you not. I don't know what all I took that night, but that doctor was a miracle-worker.
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 03:30 AM
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I think your being too harsh on the OP concerning her 20 year old. It is only natural for a parent to worry about their child, no matter the age, and some 20 year olds are more street smart than others.
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 03:38 AM
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Do I gather you &amp; your husband flew firsrt class and your daughter didn't ?
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 03:38 AM
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I dunno... the parents didn't seem to worry about flying 1st class and leaving their daughter in the back of the plane.
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Ha! Posted at the same time!
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 03:49 AM
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Hi Kerouac !
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