DayStone22

I'm looking to book a trip with my spouse, and my 17 month old son. I've wanted to go to the BVI's for ever, but am interested in exploring other options too. My son is very well behaved, he's been dining out at upscale restaurants since he was born! So we're not necessarily looking for a "kiddie area" or a hotel filled with tons of kids running around, but we're also not looking to ruin any honeymooners romantic vacations either. I prefer a more authentic experience, lunch on the beach with locals, off road excursions, not touristy at all, while my husband prefers massages, and room service. I'm leaning toward the former though!
Any opinions would be appreciated, I have been to jamaica, puerto rico, aruba, and bahamas, so we'd like to try somewhere else
Thanks!!

JeanH

Take a look at Grenada.

Tamsentm

I think you would be happy on Virgin Gorda. We've been 3 times, first time when kids were little. It's small enough to give you that real island feel . . . you get to know the locals at the grocery store and at the gas station and they wave at you when you drive by. There are miles of nearly deserted beaches to explore yet also several upscale resorts (Biras Creek, Little Dix Bay, Bitter End) where your husband could book a massage etc. Some great small bars where expats, locals and tourists mingle (Hog Heaven, Mad Dogs, Fat Virgin) You could rent a small villa or condo unit at Nail Bay and be center island (I find renting a home like place was easier when the kids were little, nice having own kitchen and separate bedrooms so they could go to bed early while we sipped rum drinks on the porch!) Message me if you want access to my photo diaries and trip reports.

DayStone22

Great suggestions, thanks. we were actually looking into virgin gorda.

welovemexico

To Tamsentm - I'm very interested in Virgin Gorda as well. We would want to stay at a mid-size resort. Not all-inclusive, but something with some property and space. Any suggestions? Thanks!

floatpilot

I'm pretty familiar with VG. There are nice (read expensive) hotels like Little Dix, Biras Creek and Bitter End, but nothing much at the mid-low end of the price spectrum. There aren't any 'all-inclusive' places. I'm not sure if they planned it that way, but few hotels does translate into a very authentic (non-touristy) Caribbean experience with no crowds and unspoiled beaches.

We rented a villa in Nail Bay (Rambutan Villa) off VRBO and split our time between eating out and eating in the villa. Like Tamsentm said, it was easy to put the kids to bed, either for a nap or the night, and still continue vacationing. The spa and restaurant at Little Dix are the same price if you are staying there or dropping in. Biras only offers services to guests and, like the Bitter End, is difficult to get to.

Be warned, VG isn't the cheapest destination in the caribbean but you definitely get what you pay for.

Hog Heaven is an absolute must for anyone going to VG. Unbelievable views and great BBQ.

lorijv

Our family went to both Tortola and Virgin Gorda. Loved both, but VG was more unspoiled(not that Tortola is...Tort is just a lot bigger!)

We rented a terrific villa at Nail Bay that had a private pool and was a short walk down to the beach, which had great snorkeling at both ends! We ate breakfast and lunch at the villa. Lunch, especially, was nice, as we hung around the pool and indulged in the occasional tropical rum concoction. Your son could nap in the afternoon, while you and your spouse could relax by the pool..

Every evening, we headed out to dinner...never had a bad meal. We did some hiking in the early mornings, went to the Baths, took a catamaran excursion...all in all, a wonderful vacation!

steviegene

What about Costa Rica?
The locals are so friendly, there is a great combination of active adventures and relaxing beaches (some of which are very secluded) and there are monkeys!!

NYGlobeTrotter

Hands down, St. John ,USVI! No need for a passport (easy for traveling with a 17 month old). Caneel Bay on St. John is super family friendly, and arguably the most authentic Caribbean resort (especially since it was the first of it's kind in the Caribbean to start with). The hotel is in the Virgin Islands National Park, has AMAZING snorkeling, great food, laid back vibe, and close to downtown Cruz Bay with shops, nightlife, etc. And best part- St. John is completely UNcommercialized. If you're looking for authentic, you would be crazy to go any place else!