thanks for being so specific...

budget?
how many people?
length of stay?
city or beachside?
shopping or sightseeing or both?
fried, scrambled, poached or hard boiled?
level of lux?
how many per room?
strippers?
coming from where?
etc???????

Wow

As i said, i just needed a few ideas of good places to go or recommendations of people that HELP organize that sort of event, as it's my first post i didn't want it to be too long.
I'll answer a few of your questions though seeing as though you asked.

Budget - about 800 GBP
Length of stay - 3-5 days
People - 8-14
No shopping, maybe a little sightseeing but would like the days to be filled with activities (adventure, water etc)
Coming from England

Hope you can help

This link might provide a few ideas :http://www.chillisauce.co.uk/hen-nights/bangkok/
Don't forget the flight from London is around 12 hours. This plus jet lag means that 3-5 days is not a lot of time.! http://www.intrepidtravel.com/ is good for small groups and they would sort out an exclusive strip for your group. If the budget of £800 includes airfare then that does not leave a lot for hotels and activities etc. airfares vary from £550 in low season to around £800 in high season.
The destination section on Fodors will give ideas for activities.

rhkkmk is a well known dancer/stripper in Bangkok. For 8 quids he will dance for you all night long and only wearing thongs. IMO that is why he has a lot of questions for you.

Thank you crellston.

Our budget doesn't include airfares and depending on what we find we might stay longer like you suggested. We just want to see what's available and what we can get for our money at the moment.

I checked out the link you provided for chilli sauce and i like the sound of the Jungle Adventure http://www.chillisauce.co.uk/hen-nights/bangkok/jungle-adventure~pk1341/.

I also found a site that organizes hen parties in Phuket who have a huge choice of activities, you can actually build your own package as well but this package sounds pretty good http://phuketbucksparties.com/hen-party-in-thailand-adrenaline-junkie/
To be honest though i might build my own and add a few more nights, undecided yet but still plenty of time left.

Really appreciate your reply and i will check out your other suggestions too.

suggest you purchase a guidebook for thailand and that will answer many of your initial questions

Hi Josie - Many posters on this site are older, independent travelers. You should also check tripadvisor for help with a bachelorette package - Posters there are more likely to have gone with the organizers you're considering. Good luck!

That, or Lonely Planet's Thorntree forums. Seem much more suited for a bachelorette party.

Will, haven't you heard? Thorntree is almost dead. Just a zombie now. Something to do with hen parties, or was it chicken hawks?